Interesting topic arose this past weekend at the roundtable discussion for Doms..the question came up of exactly "how do YOU handle a new submissive or slave" (meaning new to ME, and not necessarily new to the lifestyle.

Of course I looked at them and told them that was the easiest question of the night.."obviously by the hair!!" 

I thought that was a little less heavy than saying clipping a double ended leash to her nipple rings and walking her around the dungeon all night...

Incredible..what a blast of reality! Years ago I was a member of the original Leather Rose and Galleria Domain in Chicago. Then the internet came along and it was easier to simply talk and meet from here. That was before the internet and sites like this primarily became hang outs for wannabees and never will be's, hiding behind screens, never to truly present themselves but putting bogus profiles up as if they will.

So after a gutfull of that, today I returned to the new GD2..and damn if it isn't practically the same as I left it! Same 3 flights of stairs that my subs and slaves would kiddingly bitch about because they had to carry the toy bag up them..same huge array of BDSM furniture, cages, lifts, etc. 

But most important, eager, real talking, chatting, meeting, playing, and maybe finding a relationship they so need, want, and crave..for real, with a real person in front of them. subs and slaves being submissive to attract the eye of a Dom, Doms doing their best to exude the confidence oh so many subs and slaves rely on.

Yep, I'm home, pretty much every Saturday. I am allowed a guest each time so if there happens to be someone that accidently ended up on Collar Me and you actually seek to meet, play, find a Dom, submit as a sub or slave in an ongoing relationship for real you can email me with specifics about you. All body sizes, breast sizes, sexual pursuasions, sexual subs, pain sluts, masochists..ALL find a home there.

They say you can't go home again. I SO take exception to that!

Anybody ever hear of that vanilla dating thing called "It's Just Lunch?" You have to actually get out, present yourself to the other person, actually see if he/she is what you seek, the type of sub/slave you desire, or as some have said to me on this, "Domly enough!" whatever that may be online.

Unless you are looking for a fantasy online thing, how Masterful or submissive someone may come off online is irrelevent. It's who presents themselves, how they present themselves and IF they present themselves.

I have met a couple of subs/slaves in the last month or so and while they do not seem like a match, I have the highest regard for both, as they actually came out, met, enjoyed each other's company IN PERSON. Didn't cost them a cent since I paid for all drinks and eats, even though they showed even more class and offered to pay as well! And while it might be a pain in the ass to constantly go out, dress submissively (or Masterfully) to meet, etc. it's one of the necessary evils to meeting THAT person.

I know..it occurred for me once..lasting 4 years..so I have a good idea what it takes. 

So kick it around. As I like to say, no matter how close you may live to me, online, I don't have a collar and leash long enough to own you and you don't have hair long enough for me to control you! .

And if a bunch of "behind the screeners" wanna put together a "meet up" lunch, dinner, drinks or munch, count me in to help do that. I'll be happy to put my time and effort out there along with my words.

SS

Wow..just when you think someone is bright, funny, interesting and a possibility, she pulls one of those "I am under someone's protection" scams...

...if you believe in that "protection" crap, you JUST MIGHT need someone to protect you!

SS

Sometimes, as I read through the profiles of the mostly fake and never will be's on here and ALT and others, I come to realize it's not so much as fake (although I've run into those "no shows" as lately as a couple weeks ago), but the fact that sometimes it's difficult to tell the sub/slave from the Dominant.

Frankly, no Dominant worth his role will accept the "my Dominant will <blah,Blah,blah>, and he will <yak, yak, yak> and he will know I refuse to <yada, yada, yada>.

No, for those that have been looking and deleting, and "deleted, not read" everyones emails, this isn't EHarmony. The DOMINANT set the rules, the tone, etc. Although if you're new and have never heard this before, somehow it doesn't surprise me much anymore.

I seek a lovely masochist. Lovely to me. With eyes to die for, lips to entertain for hours, and  body I can't get enough of enjoying. I'm not a looker myself. No, I'm the brain type. The creative, planning, set things in motion type. If you want that role (except for the "looker" part..lol), then change your status to Domme and start that lame "ok dogs, eat my pussy" rhetoric. That went out with Bettie Page..lol.