I am a Poly Dom that follows the lifestyle as best as life allows. I am married and my other half/wife/submissive is aware and approves of me looking for a sub. That being said, what I am seeking is a woman over 21yrs old, single, married or part of a couple. Someone that does not want to play games. I am serious and you should be too. A sassy sub is always welcome, as they all are a challenge and I enjoy challenges. I am not looking for a sub that is submissive when she feels like it, or when the wind blows from a different angle. If you are in this lifestyle, you should know what you want or have a pretty good idea what you are looking for. I am not looking for 24/7, as said before, I have been with my FUN for the last 5yrs and we have a little addition to our family and in no way looking to change that. I enjoy public and private play. I am a very sensual Dominant, but in no way that means I am soft. I just don't show the sadistic in me til it needs to come out. I am looking to make friends and play partners and eventually that special sub that I can connect with for a long friendship. I am a 'hands on' Dominant, that enjoys playing privately and publicly. I am looking for a submissive lady to enjoy playing as a steady play partner. If you are not willing to commit to the lifestyle, don't waste my time or yours. I am tired of fakes and wannabes. Be real and true to yourself first, before you even think you can belong to someone. WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.