I’m only interested in those who are real and genuine in their interests. I do not and will not devote time for mere games. I'm looking for one who fits in my life and compliments my nature - as I fit and compliment theirs.

I seek and prefer someone who understands as I do these areas of mutual interest. That would be someone who authentically wants the intense intimacy possible in a properly developed relationship where all your secrets are known, limits respected, and one in which you are accepted exactly as you are.

That means one who; is courteous; has real life experience; honest; physically fit; attractive and adventurous - someone who has no trouble finding ordinary men, but who is holding out for more. <>If you want someone who commands respect and one whose strength of will, character, and carnality compels a firm, yet tender and gracious surrender then we should pursue the opportunity.

I do not post or freely send photos until there is a reason beyond curiosity - otherwise physical attraction initially drives interest and it is the mental attraction that must be present at first. This has nothing to do with my appearance at all. It does have to do with the need to be sure with whom I am communicating, gentlemanly and exercising an equal degree of prudent discretion. <>

A guiding principle in any interaction between us should be that I know exactly what I am doing and recognize the importance of trust through respect, discretion, truthfulness and kindness.