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Moved back to Chicago and excited to see what adventures lie next. As I look through the site, I am happy to say a lot of Dommes voice their opinions, desires, concerns, and wants. However, many subs do not offer these in exchange either or communicate properly it seems.
BDSM and dom/sub relationships require a delicate balance; it is beautiful in a way. However, a subs primary job is to serve and cater to his domme. There is a great deal and lack of respect for dommes on here and that from subs as much of it is about kinks and wants. It goes both ways, yet I believe in the end a subs job is to enjoy, focus their attention, and please a domme, end of story.
Part of my transition from domination to submission was realizing part of this, that I enjoy giving pleasure, yet also the trust that is involved. I don't believe anything else requires as much trust as this. You are devoting your body and mind to someone and must trust that in doing so they will take care of what is to come ahead and you will both receive something amazing. Thus, many of my fetishes revolve around this:
- chastity
- orgasm control
- oral, pegging
- ass-play
- dressing up
- catering to my domme
- being used
- use of paddles/whips/crops
My list is very long and broad, but all-in-all my wish is to engage in these things not for simple pleasure of my own, yet to do so for my domme. When I'm not doing so, I'm busy being involved in the medical field, working out, and exploring new adventures. My list of hobbies and activities is also endless! If you find my take on the subject, kinks, philosophy interesting, or simply wish to chat about anything, hobbies, or other interests by all means message me and thank you for reading.
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