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| I have been on this site before. This time I am going to keep the profile simple. I am seeking a woman (born female) for a relationship that will lead to a permanent situation.
I am not a bedroom dominant type. I am in control of my life and my surroundings, including my work environment, and seek someone compatible. The secret sauce is that I am not oppressive, am not intent on treating someone in a demeaning or humiliating manner, nor do I get my thrills from beating someone down emotionally or otherwise. I would rather share your successes.
I am seeking someone who will share all aspects of life, which includes sharing a home, vacations, social activities, evenings out in vanilla settings, etc. At the same time, I do enjoy physical and sexual activities that are common to the lifestyle. I am not looking for a conversation partner, but a real life person who wants to ultimately be with me.
This is all about trust, honesty and compatibility.
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So what really is your fantasy? Who have you discussed it with? Do you actually communicate what you are really all about, or are you in denial?
Perhaps you keep things hidden because you feel that once that secret is out, someone will use it to their advantage and at your expense? Unfortunately that is human nature, so you have to choose wisely. However, most people fail to choose at all, refusing to take a risk in life and end up having nothing instead.
I will keep looking and "knocking on doors" to see what happens. Nothing ventured, nothing gained and all that, but it sure would be nice to find someone who is not afraid of their proverbial shadow.
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Interesting what one finds in the inbox. Appears people have nothing better to do than write stupid nasty stuff and hit send, sort of like engaging your mouth before putting your brain in gear, but at least saying something is not a permanent rendition as a writing can be.
One of the things I have learned from living so long is that there is often no one right answer or way to define or do something. The same goes for the lifestyle, as the variations on the theme are numerous. Remember, just because you read something on the internet doesn't mean it is true and correct and the only way life evolves in the universe.
I am still seeking interaction with actual people who have thoughts and ideas, as opposed to people who think they should be end tables, drink holders or furniture of some kind that requires regular dusting. It is not inconsistent to be wired to want to be a submissive or a slave and still have a modicum of intelligence and free will but wish to enjoy the freedom of this lifestyle.
I am not though, looking for someone who just wishes to socialize and go home. I am hands on and as they say, "talk is cheap."
And now, from an old television show when the commercials ended, back to Maverick. |
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Whatever happened to just going out on a date? Sure, this is a lifestyle site, but relationships have to start somewhere. But alas, there appear to be no people who just want to make a friend, see where it goes and have a positive attitude and a sense of humor.
Old Sam Cooke song had lyrics that included "If I could meet em, I could get em, but as yet I haven't met em," which appears to be a truism of the lifestyle. At least on websites, all talk and fantasy and nobody wants to even press the flesh.
It would be really fun to find a nice lady with a lifestyle bent to her. Not too much to ask. |
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I have had some opportunities over the past few weeks, but they were casual. While pleasant, that "connection" and intensity just were not present. But I did get to "whip" up on a little something.
However, the real thrust here is still to find an actual partner to share life with. Someone with something of a common background, which means some level of maturity and if I were to put it this way, has aged gracefully.
In some people I continue to see an inability to understand themselves, or make peace with the idea that they are actually allowed to have fun, however that is defined. Just because, for example, you turned 50 doesn't mean life is over and you are required to spend all your time sitting in a rocking chair, unless of course to start with you are properly tied to it.
If you are interested in someone who would be interested in you as a person, as well as an object of desire, you know what to do. |
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I was laughing the other night and thought that maybe I should look for someone in another country, as there appear to be no women in America over 50 who wish to be in a lifestyle relationship. But I doubt that will yield anything of substance either. So I will continue to laugh at that thought.
But on a more serious note, it does tend to amaze me that there are few age appropriate women out there who want a monogamous relationship on many levels and in which they are free to live their fantasies. I am in no rush, so I imagine I will eventually find the person for me, but it would be nice if she would send me a note if I haven't found her as of yet.
I have no problems travelling to meet someone and I will repeat what I said in my first journal entry which is..... I don't need your money. What I need is your time and attention, a positive attitude and a sense of humor.
Have fun folks. |
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I am a very positive and happy person. As I think Popeye would say, "I yam what I yam." I don't need a partner, but I want one. And I want one who can think for herself, is confident in herself, but perhaps needs a bit of guidance and stability in life and knows how important a stable relationship is.
I love to touch. Whether that is playing with your hair, cuddling on the couch or enjoying your flesh in other ways, I live for that and want someone who desires the attention.
I live a very quiet and peaceful life. I have a lot to give in various ways, and I have needs and wants just as everyone does. If our outlook is complementary, perhaps we should chat?
I am looking for a real life, press the flesh, in person relationship. That is the goal. If you are capable of coming out from behind your computer screen, feel free to send a note.
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It is sad to see how few people are happy in life. Not just in online environments, but in my everyday life as well. Most people have no clue what life could really be like, and never step out of their comfort zone to even think of doing something new and perhaps meeting someone who would actually be good to them.
Something that the right woman might think about. I don't need to be nasty, harsh, abusive, etc. to impress someone that I am a great and powerful dominant (humor intended). I know who and what I am and have no need to obtain ratification by stepping on people. The power is there to use when it is needed, but it should rarely be needed in the proper relationship environment. It is sad, but a lot of people look for cracks in the armor to call weaknesses when someone has innate strength and would rather be nice. Of course, that means he is getting what he needs as well.
So are you out there? I think you are, but I haven't tripped over you yet. I can provide a peaceful and nurturing environment for the rest of our lives, but you have to trust and want to be part of it and not just an onlooker.
Often there is not enough on a profile to figure someone out. If that is you and you are touched by what you read, send a note and let us see where it takes us. Unfortunately, most wont. |
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Life continues to be interesting. I have overcome some significant life challenges in the past year and it has sharpened my perception even more of who and what I am. It would be nice to find my partner in life, but it seems that all who i approach are not who they appear to be.
I have always been that realistic person, but that doesn't seem to get me very far. So it is time to branch out and expand my horizon. As time has gone by I think it appropriate to look at opportunities. Do you need a place to stay? Are you in need of a new beginning. Perhaps we can work something out. Age is no longer a parameter.
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Perhaps it is time to be a bit more specific. I am looking for a package of lifestyle and vanilla activities. I am not looking for a "play and go home" type situation. So if this is a part of you that you crave, perhaps we have some compatibility.
As part of life, and among other of life's activities, I would seek a woman who has a significant oral fixation and gets a warm fuzzy feeling (or feeling of your choice) from being restrained and some significant impact play (paddle, leather, cane, use your imagination, etc.). Not looking for only that, certainly not, but has to be a part of the package in some way.
If that is a part of your makeup.... then we have a basis to meet and contemplate. |
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I guess an addendum is required. I am a gentleman, raised by people two generations older than me. I treat people with respect and expect to be treated in the same way. I also am looking for a real life partner, not a cyber or cam relationship and in that regard, expect to meet someone, however we get that done, within a relatively short time. I have no issues traveling a bit to accomplish that and tend to be a gracious person.
The disappointment in life has been people who have either no idea how to deal with someone human and real, or no intention of being in an actual relationship. Quite frankly, it is their loss.
I do not chase people in cyberspace. I am just not needy in that regard. So I will continue to write to people, engage in some meaningful discussion and then see a bit more of what people are all about. At some point I will find the right person and she will benefit, as will I. Until then, good luck, and if you truly want to be in a relationship and have a life partner, feel free to write. |
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In some ways the profile is pretty generic, but the basic point is that I am looking for someone in the "life partner" category. Someone who will like to travel with me, go out socially in everyday society, etc. I am not looking for a "hit and run" situation and I am the kind of person who is compassionate and will look after you (that can be read many ways, yes I know).
The main thing I have to have is your time and attention. I want someone I want to spend a lot of time with, and not talking about the time you are tied to a post. As I have aged I have achieved a much more in depth and thorough understanding of life and my own needs and wants. The word "friend" keeps on coming up in my mind. Many of these words scare people off, but not me.
I would be very fond of someone who likes to be touched and likes to touch. That means many things, from just holding hands to your head laying in my lap with your mouth fully occupied. Perhaps your hands are tied, perhaps not. Just an example, but one of many, perhaps hundreds of opportunities for interaction between two people who have found that special relationship.
Questions? Ask away. And I dont need your money, and I dont want a one trick pony. |
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