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My typical "sub": I like smart women, meaning wise and have goals in life, whether they have achieved them yet or not. Feminists I have always loved, women who are strong in public and aggressive and don't take shit from anybody especially men on the outside. Then they crave a man who can put them in their place privately. They need a strong hand and fantasize about submitting but don't want anyone to know. This isn't all about me because I am dominant. It's what works for both of us. I respect all boundaries and quite frankly if you met me in the street you would not get the impression that I love to spank my woman and pull on her hair and bring her down to her knees. I really am mature about the lifestyle and I expect the same. I'd like to be friends with my partner and have normal conversations with her and know what her vanilla life is about, interests, and likes are. I can be sadistic very much so both on a mental and physical level but in ways where I can see my sub enjoying herself and her position of sheer powerless disposition. You don't have to be a Feminist but being a strong personality in the outside world makes it all the more enjoyable to make you submit.
SMColdice
 
 Age: 35
 New york, New York