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I think My name is pretty clear....
I'm looking for a female submissive/slave who is highly sensual and looking for the same in a Mistress.
I don't have time for game players.
I need a pet who likes being played with, petted and made to purrrrrrrr....
If you consider yourself to have "too high of a sex drive", you'll fit My needs nicely.
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I got a question last night that stopped Me in My tracks....
"Do you think that submissives are just using their surrender as a form of self-punishment?"
This is so far from My experience that it really threw Me for a loop! The submissives that I've had the pleasure to know and love have been extremely strong, capable women who in no way required or sought a form of pathological flagellation thru D/s. They adored their submission and were intensely happy within it...not sublimating some need for punishment.
Keep in mind, this was a straight male Dom asking the question...and he was being very specific in addressing lesbian submissives in his question. His thought was that , of course, all women should worship males and therefore, the ones who "consider themselves at this time to be lesbian" were having a type of psychological drama played out in the need to be punished for seeking a Mistress....LOL
While his point was a little skewed by personal bias ( ok...A LOT skewed LOL), it was an enlightening look into the mind of someone who doesn't seem to accept a submissive as a functioning, intelligent being capable of making their own choice. Instead, he seemed to view them as a damaged person looking for absolution thru the concept of punishment & pain.
I think I was truly shocked that there were still people out there who thought this way ....let alone, someone who called themselves "Master".
Are there damaged people looking for some form of catharsis in D/s? Absolutely... but they are by no means all submissive! I know as many Dominants with issues who are using their assumed control of another person to mask the fact that they don't have control of themselves! For evidence of that, all one has to do is look at the number of "I live in my mom's basement because I like the view out the window...and the free internet to play World of Warcraft" supposed Dominants out there! LOL
My best advice to a submissive reading this...? Know your own worth before you start interacting with the masses. There are those of us out here who believe that we literally cannot fully exist in our Dominance without a submissive partner to share that with.....
I'm always Domme - it's how I was wired and what fulfills Me, personally. But I'm not fully actualized in that Dominance unless I'm in concert with My sub.
Just My two cents....
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Just a point of clarification -
If I ask you what you respond to ...what you "like"....I'm looking to find out if you're a good fit for Me. I'm not asking for you to give Me a litany of "this is what I want you to do to me" points. You should know at the outset that I'm not inclined to tailor My own needs to suit your preferences.
But if you're "pre-programmed" to respond to the things I like, I know which buttons to push to mold you into the sub/slave I'm looking for.
And which ones to continue pushing until you're a moaning, twitching puddle at My feet...LOL
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wow...on here 2 minutes and already feel the need to explain the meaning of the word LESBIAN.....
Just for the record, not looking for men.
Lesbian, bi or bi-curious biological women encouraged to respond.
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| Age: 28 |
| Westminster,
Colorado |
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