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I'm looking for a woman who wants a close loving relationship with a dominant man. Touch, sensuality and closeness are very important to me. I've had a couple of unpleasant experiences on line so I'm a little bit careful and will also respect you if you are. Short term non-monogamous relationships do nothing for me. Location isn't so important to me although there's obviously an advantage in not being too far away (maybe a few hours drive - 300 miles perhaps) if we want to get to know each other before taking the next step. You'll probably have a career and you'll certainly have a brain and you'll have a life outside D/s, but you may be wanting the sense of D/s to permeate your life more fully by way of always being aware of your Dom. I like pain so you will need to be a masochist and you'll need to want to feel my touch and force and pain. Age is not a big issue for me as long as we are both at the same point in life, but children are not on my horizon. I have none and while I could probably accept them in your life I think it would work better if there were none or if your's were grown. If you want a dom who builds rules and needs obedience it's probably not me you're looking for. More the "let me help you fly" sort Falling in love with you would be wonderful. Originally from NY and more recently from Illinois I'm new in the north west but this looks like being the place I will settle permanently. OK we need to be attractive to each other and its going to be a while before I share pictures. I wont ask you too either, and then it will only be G rated. But attractive doesn't mean you have to be a model, and attractive finds its own shape mostly as you get closer to somebody. You're not going to be skinny though, I actually like a little bit of cushioning but you do need to be healthy and have some energy.
kitten41019
 
 Age: 42
 Yucca valley ca, California