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Is there a such thing as a nice Domina?

I seek a woman who wants the authority in the relationship. I guess the exact same power and authority a mother has over her child. Only it would be transplanted into a romantic, loving adult relationship between myself and that woman. I am not seeking the care a mother provides, just that level of female authority.

I just want the woman to be the controlling partner in charge, who feel she has a right and also a duty, to bring corporal discipline into the relationship, to manage it better, and help shape me to be the best mate I can be to her, and in all ways. A woman that absolutely rules the bedroom, has banned the words "no", "I don't want to" and "I can't", and won't accept any limits or bounds in the room that she rules absolutely.

In every other way I seek a plain ordinary vanilla relationship. Warm and loving, kind and caring, with perhaps a bit too much focus on fun and pleasure.

So I don't even kow if you have to be a Domina to have a chance to bring female authority to a relationship. Maybe you just have very strong maternal instincts, and this may be ideal for you. Maybe you are a submissive, seekng a different way to serve a significant other? Pehaps you are a switch that would be cool being in charge outside the bedroom and not all confused and emotional, when discipline is required by circumstances.

I mean I would like a Domina, because they seem to be most comfortable having authority over a male, and like a mother, know when a boy has been misbehaved. BUT THE Dominas on here scare me. They don't appear very personable. I can't believe that none of them are actually nice people.

Anyways, I think I have done a good job of presenting what I seek with a woman. Obviously I am not going to appeal to everyone. But if having full parental authority in a romantic relationship (LTR hopefuly) is something you like and are interested in checking out. Please just fire off a note, or add me to your favorites and I will notice you noticing me.

Then we can have the friction of exchanging thoughts and ideas to seek if that triggers any sparks. It is best you live in Toronto. But that is not cast in stone for the right woman.

My age preference is 21-29, 30-39, however I am willing to consider offers from woman 40-49, and 50+. Race? Hadn't given it much thought, and I usually don't. If I find a woman attractive, I find her attractive. I can tell you some attributes that I tend to find attractive, but I would hate to be pegged to only these things. People less than 20lbs over weight, people 5'9" and under. Longer hair. Informed and intelligent. Pleasant and warm. And somebody that really likes being sexual everyday. And feels everyone involved should enjoy themselves.

I don't expect much success though. On normal dating sites, the mention of a desire for female authority or a female lead relationship, turns me into a lepper. Only I really do want a normal like girl, except that she will be in charge, have authority, rule the bedroom and be the source of discipline in the home.

There has to be a million women that would be okay with that, and would see if it would work for them by giving it a go. But I can't seem to find them. Perhaps they are lurking here?

Let me now if you are here!
MisConstrue
 
 Age: 36
 Eranakulam, India