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I'm looking for someone that is my age or close to it, naturally petite, confident and generally happy. I am going to begin by describing myself, as I believe that is the most important thing for me to convey and the most valuable thing that I have to offer. I am a libra, we are complicated to begin with. Always changing direction like the wind, sometimes pushing at your back sometimes challenging you to work harder to take the next step. If you call me a ditz i'll hide your hair dryer, it's not to say that i'm super ADHD or anything.. but what captivates my imagination one day may not inspire me the same way the following day. I will (probably) always love your hot ass pants however.. you know the pair that makes it look amazing? Every girl has at least one pair.. don't they? I have been an emotional leach, and i've dated emotional leaches. It's like a challenge to see who can freak out quicker so the other can play the "it's ok" game. I'm not interested in any of that anymore. I will always appreciate a shoulder to cry on and will always be the strong arms for you to fall into any time that you need it, but let's not make an entire relationship out of it please? I want conversation and stimulation. I want to find out a few of the things that you're interested in so I can sneak away and learn about it on my own so we can talk about it later. I want to be involved in your life and your interests while also giving you space to do your own thing. I won't wear matching winter jackets, but I do want to do fun couple things together. Life should be an adventure shared between two happy, fun, healthy people. I'm single now because I chased the ass pants first. It took me 3 decades but I am beginning to realize what's important to me out of a relationship. That's communication, transparency, true love, and growth. I was very angry when I was younger because I was a bit lost. Truthfully i'm still figuring my direction out but I finally have the wisdom to recognize the value of the lessons being placed upon me. It's very frustrating for a young man to not have his roles and goals in order. As far as work goes, i'm a professional driver with aspirations of working out West in the oilfields. I have my licence and have found local work, i'm looking for the right opportunity in Alberta. Realistically it may mean that i'm "on duty" for 12 days in a row with several off here and there. I'm not a 9-5 guy, and won't be for several years. I want to do this for approximately 10 years before transitioning into another career. As far as intimacy goes..I want to know what turns you on, I want to get inside of your head and find those fun little strings to pull. I'd be honored if you took the time to get to know mine as well. After all isn't that what BDSM is about, negotiating and exploring mutual kinks and turn ons? I can tell you that mine won't involve animals, underage, public exposure, scat, knives and illegal activities. I'm probably not the right guy to ask to torture you thoroughly then fuck your ass as aftercare.. actually, hmm that sounds good with the right lady. I can be in control with a plan for the evening, weekend or month. I can be the one being controlled too. I don't know how we will settle that.. coin flip? lol.. or just going with what seems natural. I know that I want to be able to discuss things with you. Habits and vices: cigarettes and weed, coffee and coke. Video games, documentaries and a little kitty that pees on my coat. So this is me.. or at least as much as I can think to tell you about me right now. There's a ton more. As you can see i'm rather open and upfront, and appreciate that from a partner as well.

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slavedammy
 
 Age: 26
 Oceanside, California