Wondering what's behind the Profile handle?

Honesty, that's what, we all know why we're here, I am simply saying it outright, shocking isn't it?

Here's some more, I'm married, she doesn't want to know as long as I'm discreet, so no photo's until I've talked to you properly and that means real talk not just nonsense. Do not send me intimate photo's as soon as we start chatting, I don't want them, in fact they make me wonder, why?

What do I like?

Cuckolding, bondage, Gang bangs, spanking, discipline, obedience training, power exchange, sexual domination and use.

Limits will be respected, a long shopping list of demands will not! I'm not here to be some fake subs gopher.

Bisexual female would be preferred or bi curious as I will enjoy investigating that with her, possible threesomes FFM preferred, meeting couples would also be high on the possible list of things to do.

I enjoy submissive women of all ages, which means when I want to fuck, we fuck.

I like my women naked a lot, in fact just like it says on the tin I'm Ken and looking for women to be Kens Kunt I want plenty of fucking and kinky play, it's that simple. I'll be friend, fucker, dom, mentor and guide along the kinky path of BDSM, but If you have self image issues go find a counselor I'm not trained as one.

The eventual goal would be to own you.

The practicality of this is that I work, look after my disabled wife and so 24/7 would be impossible as would live in. This means in reality I can't accommodate so you must be able to or be prepared to use alternative arrangements.

I don't do pubs and clubs, nor do I want to spend most of our time out and about.

I'm looking for a long term regular REAL LIFE situation, possibly with someone in a similar situation to myself. I am NOT looking for nor will I consider an online friendship or cyber sex.

Gentlemen I am not interested unless it's to cuckold you by fucking and using your woman and no you can't join in, I might let you listen outside the door or over your mobile, or let you in to clean her up after I've used her.

You may read this and think it's negative. Quite the contrary I am simply weeding out the time wasters before they start playing their games. Why? I've been messed around too often to take any crap and refuse to take any more.

Those who are genuine will find I have a sense of humour, of the warped ex forces variety, I'm friendly, confident, intelligent on days with an a in their name.

I speak English, not american, nor do I speak or bother to try and understand chav patios or text speak. I do not answer to hun, babe, dear or any other rubbish.

I don't watch much TV so if your only conversation is about some soap or series look elsewhere. I loath football so similarly. When I have time which isn't often I prefer to watch rugby, hopefully I'll be too busy enjoying you to have time for that.

You will be treated with respect due to you, and we will discuss things to explore together.

I'm Dom or so they tell me, another bloody silly label that seems to have been latched onto by the wannabees so much it has almost lost it's true meaning. What does it mean in my case, ex forces, I take control, lead from the front and am no stranger to discipline, both enforcing it, accepting it and the hardest of all, self discipline.

Part of what I do as Dom is take responsibility so whenever you do as you're told you're being 'good' even though it may be something you'd never dare do on your own initiative. This is an accepted part of BDSM power exchange giving you freedom of conscience, inhibition and actions to enjoy experiences you would not otherwise.

Dominant is simply a label for what I have been most of my life. Am I kinky?...To a degree yes, but in my opinion (note no humble crap here) kinky isn't something you are on your own, you need at least one partner in kink to interact with otherwise it's a tad futile.

Email ping pong is not acceptable after a few conversation via email some other medium will be used, yahoo or skype perhaps, mobile numbers will be exchanged just before meeting, if that exchange hasn't taken place within 3 weeks then I'll assume you're playing stupid games and block you.

There will be those who object or are even offended by my attitude and or the fact I am married.

If you are one of those, not only do I regard you as stupid, but you can't begin to comprehend how indifferent I am to your opinion, so keep it to yourself.

You are of course entitled to your opinion, in fact I spent a number of years in harms way, have the scars to show for it and lost people close to me in the process in order to earn those rights and keep them secure.

I'd do it all again as well, so I'm all for your right to your opinion, what I do object to are those who think that they're entitled to stuff their unwanted opinions down everyone else’s throats and those who who think shouting loudest and more obnoxiously are automatically the most right.

I have news for you, you're wrong on both counts, so don't waste your breath on me, you'll be ignored like the insects you are.

If anyone is still reading, there's hope left for the human race yet!