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Hello!
My name is Joe. I'm a SWM, 55, in good health. I'm retired, as in retired with a pension and decent income, not unemployed. I'm intelligent, fun to be around, have great sense of humor. I think I'm the sort of guy you wouldn't be embarrassed to be seen with. As you can see, I don't have any self esteem issues. While I am seeking to be enslaved, fully and completely, I don't consider myself a worthless piece of crap. I don't think I need to tear myself down in order to acknowledge that YOU are superior. If you want to own a worthless piece of crap, that's your right, but you're selling yourself short. You deserve better. For the most part, I'm a normal guy with no emotional problems and little baggage...well there is that little thing about believing in Female Supremacy and Superiority, but if that isn't normal, it should be.

I believe that Women should be loved, worshipped, and obeyed. I believe men should be loved, controlled, and owned. Notice, I said both men and Women should be loved. The need for love is universal. It has nothing to do with who is the slave and who is the slaveholder. In any type of relationship, D/s or Vanilla, its absence spells doom. A loveless D/s relationship has no chance of success just as a loveless vanilla one has no chance. Love to a relationship is like water to a plant. Without it, it shrivels and dies.

I am seeking to be enslaved in a loving D/s TPE type relationship and marriage. I am seeking a strong Dominant Woman who's loving and affectionate, passionate, compassionate, understanding, and truly desires to own her man.
I offer love, loyalty, and obedience. All three must be absolute to be real. I will love you above all things all of the time. I expect the same in return. I will be faithful and loyal all of the time. I expect the same in return. I will obey you all of the time. All of the time. Not just in bed, or when you command me to do something I wanted to do anyway. Not just on the weekends, or when it's convenient, or when I am in the mood. Always. While I obviously do not expect the same in return, I do expect you to realize that owning a slave, is a big responsibility. Dominance shouldn't be an excuse to act like a spoiled child. Dominance is about imposing your will on another in a way that makes both parties happy and content. That's not easy, in fact it's damned hard. It takes a very special Woman to have a successful D/s relationship that lasts, and that's the type of Woman I seek. So, if you think a D/s relationship is about getting everything you want in exchange for nothing...not interested. Submissive doesn't mean stupid. If your attitude is...If only this man would shut up and do as I say to make me happy, I'll make him happy...very interested.
You might be thinking, this guy sure expects a lot! Maybe I do. I offer a lot too. The Women who want everything and offer nothing, never seem to be able to find someone "real". Here's wisdom for them. You can only get out of a relationship what you're willing to put in. That goes for Dominants as well as subs.

Here's what I will put in:

1- A belief in Female Supremacy and Superiority, not just as a form of sexual foreplay, but
in every aspect of life.

2- A belief that as a Woman you are far too good to be doing housework and domestic
chores, while I am not. I will do it. I will be quite happy to assume the roll of 'male
wife to my Female Husband. Picking up and cleaning up after her.

3- Worship- YOU will be my goddess and I will worship YOU on command, in whatever
manner you like. It will thrill me to hear you command me to get on my knees, crawl,
kiss your feet or ass, or whatever form of worship you desire. However, at times I will
humble myself before you without being told to do it. This, to express my love, respect,
and understanding that you are my owner and deserve it. I am not looking for the sort
of relationship in which I am a mindless robot incapable of doing anything without
first being told to, or afraid to say what he thinks because you will fly into a rage. I
want an interactive experience in which we both have input.

4-Obedience- More than just doing what I'm told. I will do it cheerfully. You will never
be able to tell if I enjoy an assigned task or not, by the way I react to an order, or the
effort I but into carrying it out. I will also consider myself accountable to you. I will
always ask your permission before doing what I want to. If I go out, you will know
where I am going, what I am doing, who I'll be doing it with, how long I'll be gone,
and how you can reach me. You know...all the stuff most men hate.

5- Love and affection. I save the best for last. You deserve to be loved. So do I.


Of course I have my share of kinky fetishes. Most of them are symbolic acts that show you are my superior. Things like kneeling and bowing down to you. Golden showers, it's hard to fool yourself into thinking you're a Woman's equal while she's peeing on your face. Being crossdressed while doing housework to get into 'wife' mode. While these are important to me, none are deal breakers. So if one or more is something you don't like, we could work around it if everything else was good. Of course if you don't like any of them, we're trying to hammer the square peg into the round hole. The one thing that is a deal breaker is Ass Worship and being Queened. I can't be happy without that.

I have a slight preference for big women. Actually, it's more a preference for Women with big butts. So if you're not a BBW, but have a big butt and liked my profile, please your interest would be welcome. If you have a supersized butt, it's a big (no pun intended) plus.

ALL RACES, BLACK, WHITE, ASIAN, SPANISH, MIXED, ARE EQUALLY WELCOME.

Wow! If you're still reading this I am sure it's a good omen, or maybe you were just bore and had nothing better to do? Let's find out!

Joe








xxJessxx
 
 Age: 24
 Manchester, United Kingdom