Its a damn shame that there are many on here who say they are what they think they are or have a bigger impression of themselves than what is reality.  Being ignorant by no response to a respectful email or jerking someones chain is not the same as being a dominant.  Get a clue.   If you arent interested, why not just say so?  I mean really, is it so difficult to be courteous?  But I guess its a blessing in disguise in a way.  Better to find out that someone has the wrong idea of the lifestyle this way than when their ignorance and stupidity might cause injury to someone.