Why is it hard to find someone who wants it all? BDSM - Romance - Passion - and ill say it, LOVE? For me, being in the lifestyle as long as I have (over 13 years...) BDSM is about trust and two people sharing that trust... I have dated Doms - Switches - Subs and slaves that still don't understand that... Where is the girl that want's it all?

Please note: I do not partake in any illegal activities and the girl that I choose WILL NOT participate in them either. It's a life choice and I choose to be healthy and not use drugs. Thank you!

My Analysis of Collar Me

It seems every time I re-register on CollarMe the same type of people are on here. It is disturbing because for someone who wants a real relationship (long term) CollarMe is filled with fakes and people ... well this is what I seem to find:

35% of people  are fake, imposters or "financial doms" who just exploit people

30% of people  are Married or Taken and need a "fling"

20% of people  never had anything in BDSM, read 50 Shades and dont want IRL

10% of people  want online only; wont tell you that and will troll and stall meetings

4% of people    think they want the lifestyle but after exploring it really don't

and the 1% I am seeking - People that want a BDSM led relationship that also includes passion, love, respect and romance. Where is my girl? I hope she exists... I have been on and off CM about 12 times; each time finding a girl; suspending/deleting the profile only to usually let her go from one of the above reasons.... **shrug*