What an interesting first evening I had on this site! Further to my last entry I actually received a message from, of all people, a Czech Republic Trans Submissive which read:

"Hello very very nice profile"

So thank you to Madelinetv! Of course I've been checking out the profiles on the site and I have to say what a fantastic range of people I have found! I shared messages with one submissive who I had actually contacted before and had forgotten our contact! I think there might have been some changes since our last contact, especially on my side. She strikes me as being honest, truthful and appreciative which is refreshing.

I've also had a member bring to my attention the Gorean lifestyle and philsophy which after some research I have found fascinating! I see many parallels with my own views including living in cooperation and harmony with one's environment, being true to one's own nature, understanding and embracing difference between the sexes and people in general, personal accountability, honour, civic duty and respect. I'm sure others of you will relate to these themes. I particularly like the idea of celebrating our differences, especially our sexual differences.

By the way I'm not really here trying to find my other "half" as such. I believe I am complete as I am. I am here to create and share my wholeness with another whole person. I believe in, as opposed to looking for in another, sharing and creating , unconditional love, truth, joy, fulfilment and completion. That is my ultimate aim although of course like all of you I am not perfect as the concept is generally understood. There is however perfection in the process. So enjoy the perfection of the process!

Very interesting evening! I received a message that I was beginner as the person could "tell" from my profile and what I said! Although she was very polite I was surprised to see that just because I may not have a lot of experience in bondage and I just joined the site today that there was a presumption that I was "a beginner". Even if I was, so what? BDSM is more than just bondage! Further more I am who I am and I make no apologies for that. In fact I am very happy with who I am! I don't have baggage and although I might look mean in my photo I'm actually very intelligent and polite. Do some people mistake politeness for lack of dominance? Isn't the whole idea of BDSM being an ability to explore and enjoy without prejudice and prejudgment in an open minded environment? So if you're close minded and think you know everything I'm definitely not the dom for you! If however you are more interested in substance, creativity, mental connection and honesty then contact me! Good luck with your connections! I'm only interested in the truly open minded... and by the way I had a great weeked with a prospective slave!