I know you are out there.

You may be submissive but are strong. Or perhaps you are dominant and yet passionate. Or maybe even passive at times, but only when you want to be. Nonetheless, you are secure in yourself; mentally, emotionally, sexually. You are deep, not shallow. You may even be one that is enlightened. If you are any or all of these, you probably share my frustration is finding intelligent, thoughtful and passionate companions.

So if you've gotten this far, you should realize that I'm not looking for a one night stand, a sex addict or a circuit player. I'm seeking someone who I connect with on multiple levels.

Physically, I am fit and athletic. Tall and lean with a very muscular build and distinguished good looks. I'm fairly laid back most of the time. I'm into multisport competitions and am an avid runner, cyclist and swimmer. I have an advanced degree and am involved in multiple ventures.

Sexually speaking, I consider myself more of a playful sadist. I guess I'm not patient enough for the formal Dom/Slave lifestyle. I'm not interested in treating anyone as a doormat. Vanialla sex is fun, but I find BDSM play the most erotic.

Ultimately, I want to find a friend, a lover. Someone who is interested in mutually exploring their sexuality. I am not a sex addict and am not interested in one. I am D&D free and you must be too.

I have had past experience with BDSM as a Dom. I believe in creating a safe, sane and fun environment. My goal and reward is to awaken and unleash the sexual beast in you.

Some of the things I've done before and find fun are:
Spanking, flogging - This isnt about delivering a beating. Its about finding balance. Too much is just noise. Too little is disappointing. Getting it just right frees your mind and inhibitions.

Bondage - I view this as an art. Creating images of vulnerability from the female form. Like any artistic skill, practice makes perfect.

Edge Play - I refer to edge play as providing the appropriate stimulation to make you close to orgasm and then keeping you there. Denying you the immediate pleasure and keeping you on edge makes the eventual sensation all the more euphoric.

Verbalization - Its amazing what a few words can do when timed appropriately.

Sex - Passionate and intense sex, afterwards. Goes without saying.

I have some flexibility with my time, but travel quite a bit. I am usually available weekday nights. I'm always available via email or phone. In person.....think about once or twice a week.

So, if you are looking for someone who is attractive, fun, intelligent; Someone who is looking for more than a one nighter; Someone who is sane, safe and compassionate; Send me a note!

I can't wait to hear from you!