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| I will first start by saying that I am a dominant male living in Oklahoma. I am a native of Southern California and that is where I got my start in the BDSM realm at. I have had a lot of fun and I have enjoyed the meeting new people and getting to understand as well as help others in the BDSM realm.
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I am now more than anything looking for a special person that I can build a future and a life with. I have many fetishes as you will find by looking at my profile as well as just talking to me in general. I do want you to know that there is nothing that I will not discuss and there is always the opportunity out there for not only increasing the knowledge and skills of all around. I have found as of recent that the area that I am really seeking from the one that will be with me is that of the 1950's household/housewife aspect. I am also into the area of the Stepford wife aspect as well. This does not mean that I am only seeking this but I do want you to know that if you are wanting to take part in a long term aspect with me that you should be prepared to discuss and talk about this. I am not saying that a person has to be a slave or a submissive to be in the relationship but you will have to understand that I am a natural dominant and I do take the position as the alpha in any relationship. If you are switch or even a dominant that we can discuss this but knowing that in my life I will always be the Alpha.
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I will also say that I am not a fan of society telling people what they should or have to do as well as others telling someone that if they are this then they have to be that. I feel that everyone is who they are and it is up to that person to be as such. I do not think that you should ever give in because society says to or that someone says that if you are a submissive you have to do such. We are all humans and we all have the ability to know right and wrong as well as we are able to make a choice. The choice you make may be to give up complete and total control to your partner. This does not mean that you are not able to make choices as you had made the choice that placed you where you are.
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I am also heavy into the mental side of things. I do not feel that just because you can spank a butt or that you can tie someone up that you can truly dominate someone. You have to be able to take that person past the physical aspects to get to the root. The root being the mental side of it all. Much like in the 1950's household where the partner knows her role she is mentally accepting this and then the physical side come about.
If you have questions or want to talk please feel free to send messages either here or you can email me at my yahoo email which is securehand@yahoo.com I do use messenger but not always. If you are male, female, transgender, or do not classify yourself under any label you are always welcome to chat with me as it not only helps me but it helps all around as more knowledge means better life.
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Have a day that you enjoy, remember society does not need to be your crutch or your Master.
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I am in the process of relocating to the Houston area. I will be traveling back and for on the weekends to Houston from Oklahoma City.
For those of you who have interests in real time meets between the 500 miles let me know as we can most likely work something out. |
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I am going to be down in Houston, TX Dec 2-4 as I am looking about relocating to the area. I have a few job opportunities while there so I will be able to meet if you are looking to see how things go. |
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Like many people I spend a lot of time connected to my phone. I view this site about 80% of the time from the phone. I do not have the ability to chat using the chat on here. If you want to chat I use yahoo and my ID is Securehand |
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