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SecretsofFire

*****If you're married or otherwise involved, DO NOT waste My time contacting Me....I'm not interested in anyone who isn't 150% available to Me when, where & how I expect them to be. I'm not one to play second fiddle to your wife or girlfriend. If that offends you & you feel the need to email Me telling Me off, save yourself the effort & suppress the urge.....because the reality is I couldn't care less about your asinine comments or feelings in that regard so keep them to yourself.
*****LIKEWISE if you're out of My area. I've no interest in cyber relationships, etc,... so if you don't reside in Florida ~ don't waste My time contacting Me.

*****If you're young enough to be someone I could have given birth to, yes, you can do the math....DO NOT contact Me...I'm not interested.

******New's flash ~ I'm not interested in your laundry list of do-me's! If you're a do-me sub then visit a Pro-Domme ~ that's what they're there for.

*****I am seeking a Female Led Relationship also known as Loving Female Authority. I am not here strictly for kink, although kink can be a by-product. I will only consider a sub/slave who truly "get's it", who understands that his happiness & fulfillment derive solely out of seeing to it that I am happy, content & fulfilled. I expect to be treated as the Goddess I am. If that's too tall an order for you, then move on &....don't waste My time.

*****To further clarify, I am not seeking part-time playtime. I DO NOT PLAY CASUALLY. If your life is too busy or involved or your attention span too short to take the time necessary to cultivate & sustain a complete relationship, move on & DO NOT WASTE MY TIME. A complete D/s relationship incorporates elements of both vanilla & D/s. I seek the TOTAL PACKAGE......A D/s LIFESTYLE IN A VANILLA WORLD.

*****DO NOT send Me your whimsical one liners professing your undying devotion or begging Me to allow you to worship Me. Similarly, DO NOT send Me a provocative email telling Me how you'd like to please Me. If you haven't a clue as to what constitutes a proper introduction ~ meaning you cannot compose a respectful email introducing yourself, then move on. I will not entertain this nonsense....I have no interest in you. your mail will be deleted & you will be blocked.

*****DO NOT waste My precious time with inappropriate pictures of yourself and/or your genitals. Jerks like you bore the crap outta Me. Buy a clue...I will not suffer fools.
Anyone or any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - you do NOT have My permission to use any of My profile or pictures in any form or forum both current & future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of My privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. Govern yourselves accordingly.

12/8/2012 8:13:30 PM

Well boys n Girls, it's time for Ms. Secrets to get out ole lesson book & go over protocols once again. Yes, I know, it's a dirty job but someone's got to do it, right?!?! Right! Today we shall go over a what constitutes a proper introduction. However, we shall do so by the reverse osmosis of wtf it isn't. It isn't a friend request. I don't know you, you haven't taken the time to introduce yourself to Me, so don't waste either of our time with these silly friend requests. Also, those witty one-liners. Haven't I already made Myself perfectly clear ~ if you can't compose a well thought out email to Me, simply put ~  you're not going to get a reply.

1/18/2011 10:03:54 AM

Ok, I've had enough of New York.....I'm going back to Fort Lauderdale......

12/26/2010 3:02:26 AM

"An introduction letter or letter of introduction is a letter that is used to introduce one party to a second party."

I obtained this meaning from an online dictionary. Perhaps one day it can be of use to those that obviously don't understand the meaning of introducing themselves in an email. I received a one line email this morning from a sub who stated to Me that he read & re-read My profile & would like to know Me better. Now come on boys & girls, what is My feeling on one line emails? Do they properly introduce yourselves? I should also state that this sub spelled My name wrong. How could that be? He stated he not only read My profile, but re-read it to boot!!!!

Therefore, this online plea is to anyone who can spare a pair of glasses for this reading challenged sub. Is there anyone out there that can help this poor lad??? Or.....is he beyond help.....

Now, by a show of hands, who is in favor of My blocking this assclown? Come on, cast your votes, make your voices heard!

12/22/2010 11:44:02 PM
Apparently it needs to be said. Don't friend request Me. Go to facebook & friend request somebody there. What's even better, just like you do here, go up to a total stranger on the street & ask them if you can be their friend.
I just don't get it. I don't know you, you don't send an email introduction, yet you do send Me a friend request. Like I'm going to accept it, right.

I may institute a wall of shame if this nonsense continues....
12/1/2010 8:59:13 PM
xcamwife says, in part, "I am NOT your girlfriend who spends hours chatting about pointless bullshit" She's got My vote!

Why on earth has someone subscribed to My journal? Waaaaay too much time on their hands perhaps..... but since I have a subscriber I thought I'd add a little journal entry. Now I need a ghost writer....
11/14/2010 3:36:52 PM

For some strange reason, it still amazes Me the amount of subs who fail to simply read My profile. Had they done so, they would not waste their time writing Me. Perhaps they can't read??? Ok, then reading comprehension lessons will hereby be administered on Tuesdays & Thursdays from 8:00 p.m. until 9:00 p.m. Tribute required....

 

And what on earth is with some of you drones who send Me your one line sentence emails? Read My profile to understand why these get NO RESPONSE. See above if you have reading comprehension issues......

 

Additionally, if you & I had begun to develop an initial correspondence & you've dropped the ball for whatever reason, why on earth do you think I want to hear from you months later? You boys are living in blowup doll land, I mean come on now & get real..........you struck out, screwed up somewhere else, or just plain got scared & now you think it's appropriate for you to contact Me because you're still interested???? Well....at least I get a good laugh from you all....you ever hear the phrase when you snooze you lose....

8/27/2010 7:39:53 AM
In an effort to clarify....I have no interest in bisexuals for consideration as My slave. That is simply My preference.

No interest in subs & slaves younger than 45........That means you subs & slaves in your  twenties, thirties & early forties, stop emailing Me young putzpullers!

No interest in anyone not local to Me...No interest in anyone not local to Me...No interest in anyone not local to Me...No interest in anyone not local to Me...No interest in anyone not local to Me...No interest in anyone not local to Me...Did I mention no interest in anyone not local to Me? If not let Me mention it again....

Do you like your emails to be "DELETED UNREAD?"....Apparently so...I guess it provides some form of the punishment you seek. Do you actually wonder why you are not only Deleted Unread but then also blocked if you persist? Too too funny....
8/26/2010 2:34:15 PM
It's amazing that in this day & age so many subs & slaves are quite illiterate. They say insanity is doing the same thing over & over & expecting a different result.....& you fools know who you are!

Now read carefully, perhaps get someone to translate for you....DO NOT INVITE ME TO CHAT IF YOU HAVEN'T SENT ME A RESPECTFUL EMAIL INTRODUCTION. Please note, an introduction is NOT a one line sentence asking if you may approach, may speak with Me, may serve Me, etc. I SEEK ONLY LOCAL TO ME...that means no one out of state & certainly not out of the country, no more than an hour away. I'm not interested in your comments and/or compliments on My profile and/or pic posted telling Me you wish we lived closer to each other. I'm not interested in your willingness to relocate. I'm not interested in online romance, whatever the hell that really is other than nonsense...I don't need a pen pal or someone looking for a friend. I'm not interested in your kinks.

I read the profile of another Domme wherein she states if you're a "do me" sub then let someone else "do you." I found that right on! Kudos to Her! In reading other Domme's profiles & journals I see that, unfortunately, we seem to encounter the same caliber of mentally challenged, selfish & arrogant subs & slaves....see, I said mentally challenged, I'm really trying hard here to be pc......
LadyWinter
 
 Age: 24
 Indianapolis, Indiana