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I am a long-time Seattle dominant interested in most things related to Ds, BDSM, TPE, and the ying and yang of kinky sexual experiences between two consenting adults. I have been active in this area (and on and off as a member of various websites) for over a decade, and I am now returning after an absence of a few years. As someone with a very kinked and dominant sexual personality, my interests and experiences are many and varied, and I love hearing about and acting out fantasies (yours and mine). As Mary Poppins used to say, these are a few of my favorite things
My first love (and kink) has always been disciplinary scenes and spanking. I love spanking AND all that goes with it. I love the anticipation and vulnerability that a woman must feel as I put her in the corner (possibly with her skirt hiked up or panties pulled down) for corner time knowing what will come next. I love administering an over-the-knee spanking, or a bent-over -the-table spanking, or a face down, tied, and spread-eagled spanking, and I love seeing the embarrassment and the vulnerability that goes with these positions as she waits for her punishment and says ever so contritely, Im sorry. My goal is simply to help her be the good girl she wants to be. I am not a shouter or a screamer, and I use a very modulated and very matter-of-fact voice tone and raised eyebrows to convey that what she has done has caused me displeasure and that there is now a price to pay. Depending on the offense (and the woman), the spanking can be with my hand, a paddle, a hairbrush, a ruler, a strap, a crop, or a cane. My view on discipline is that the punishment should always fit the offense, and as part of discipline scenes, I have washed out more than one bratty or potty mouth with soap, and I have other methods (for example, nipple clips and orgasm denial) for the truly incorrigible, insolent, or disrespectful.
My second love is control and, more specifically, orgasm controldenialdelay. I love control. I love controlling a womans body and her orgasm simply to exert control or, if necessary, for punishment. I love to hear a woman beg for a climax or beg to be fucked hard as I touch her in all her right places and tongue, toy, and tease her with whispered naughty words to the edge of a climax while she is roped down and blindfolded. This requires (obviously?) restraints (e.g. bondage) and implements (e.g. blindfolds, toys, etc.). But very erotic!
My third love is role play--always with a Ds theme. I think my favorite role play is medical role play because the power exchange (and, thus, my control) is AWESOME. Doctorpatient role play epitomizes the subtleties of domination (mine) and submission (hers) with the clothed in-control doctor and the dressed, then partially undressed, then completely nude and submitting patient having the most intimate things done to her, with this veneer that it is all normal. There is something very special about her being so vulnerable, often so very embarrassed, and so open physically and mentally (both nude and spread). The whole scene, from the initial, very personal, very probing questions into her sexuality and sexual history that I start with, to the doctors orders to do this or spread that, to the touch during the breast exam or the temperature taking, and then to the digital or speculum penetration during a vaginal and an anal examination all seem to SCREAM submission. I guess I should add, of course, that it is erotic as all hell for me. The control...so complete, so nuanced, so intense. Other role play I like also has the Ds theme Professorstudent, Copshoplifter, Priestpenitent, rape fantasies, age role play, etc. Be creative!
While the above are a few favorite things, there is little I have not done or tried--e.g., blindfolds are a must, bondage (face up spread eagle as well as hog tied), hair pulling, toys galore, nipple clips, fisting, figging, and more)--but if I missed YOUR kink, let me know and we can probably cum to some commonality of interest.
I should stress that all of this is consensual. Before any meeting, I know what is on her off-limits list, and I honor the agreed-upon parameters. I am safe (condoms), sane, respectful, and considerate, but I do have this very creative dominant streak, looking for people who have the reciprocal of the interests I have--the submissive ying to my dominant yang.
My limits I dont do children, animals, third parties, breath play, electroplay (TENS units), or permanent marks. Life is too short.
My goal is simply to engage your body (of course!) but also you emotions and to stimulate your your brain (which, is, after all, the most erogenous of all the zones).
I have libido that never stops and a creative imagination to match. Not interested in a lot of drama, endless email exchanges, diseases, or marriage--I just want a like-minded Ds partner.
So if (as the Brits say) you fancy any of this, contact me.
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