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	SadPetGIrl2

	Me. I am of a time that is in the past as far as this internet is concerned. I have only ever known Bdsm as a purely consensual arrangement between adult minds, and that as a reality and never a fantasy. I am acceptable to a cornucopia of pleasures that the vanilla world are incapable of accepting. I am human, I am a male, and I am of a time when women served with every fibre of there body, and for some unknown reason those whose obedience and sensual parameters being outside the normal sought me out in an endeavour to fulfil those dedications and passions. Why I was thus trusted I have no idea, maybe it is a facet I possess that I am not aware off, but each and every one brought different passions, and each and every one was unique and a pleasure and privilege to know as a reality. And within this consensual adult exchange all I have ever discovered is that I have very few boundaries when it comes to accepting personal passions that require fulfilment. This “Lifestyle” per se is a dedicated environment, it has rules, protocols and dictates, it requires time to fulfil. It also requires honesty that is absolute, with no hidden agenda’s and no deceptions. And for the R/rare few it is a need, a part and parcel of the human they are as a reality. A/all that they are is all that they can give, they do not play at the human they are, they just are. They seek trust in abundance, honesty, loyalty and dedication to One, and within this environment they flourish Dedicated servitude means exactly that, it does not stop at sexual use, it is a part of the human as a natural part of whom they are, the only thing they can ever give is themselves, without fear, chagrin, hesitation or remorse. In short they give themselves as an adult human with full knowledge of the human they are, to be modified to suit each and every facet of the One they serve. To give themselves to control and use that others would run away from as fast as their vanilla feet will carry them. I try not to attach labels to humans as I am well aware that each and every human is unique, the only labels I would attach to myself are that of dedicated and honest, I could also include retired, but only from the workplace, but then I still work daily on one thing or another so even that label would be somewhat erroneous. I am me, of a time when the vanilla world made Bdsm practices illegal, but with the advent of the www Bdsm practices between consensual adults are now deemed legal, even if some of the observances within those legal parameters are still considered illegal, so a double edged sword by any account. I only entertain slaves and properties that are adult in both thought and deed and can make adult decisions to serve in whatever fashion they are capable of to find fulfilment within terms and conditions that are discussed before any real time activity, which in this day and age is the internet, telephone and then in real time, but always observing SSC mandate. As regards to what genre of Bdsm I observe, all I can say is pre-internet and pre-acceptance by the Court of Human Rights. I am neither Old School or Old Guard by internet definition, nor am I of the newly discovered leather brigade or Gorean, although I must admit a fondness for the early online Gorean aspects, where manners and honour were tantamount. I do not suffer fools gladly, and liars I do not suffer whatsoever, as with thieves or any non-consensual mind and act. I enjoy control and everything that control brings with it, which is use, modification and adjustment. I am extremely diverse, some have even termed me perverse, I spent fifty years as a dedicated seafarer which believe me develops a most different mindset. I would attach the label Owner, inasmuch that having been given a variety of adult human beings to control and enjoy, what else would you term a man given such a gift. If you want a similar but fictitious figure all I could possibly suggest is the character who appears in Johnny Depps movies as Davy Jones, not that I smoke a pipe, or have one leg, nor the tentacles around my neck, but with regards to personal integrity, tenacity, honour, privacy and personal ideals, I am also a practical realist in every sense of the term. I also believe in the likes of Terry Pratchetts god of lost socks and teeth, but like they so no O/one is perfect. So that’s a modicum about me, a thin slice to chew upon. As to my deliberations as an owner, then for that you will have to find your own personal trust and entertain the concept that it is you who wants to know the answers to your questions, in which case find the courage and honesty to come and ask.

9/11/2008 1:09:54 AM Well this morning just confirmed what I knew already, and thank you pink for bringing it to My attention. I have enjoyed willing minds on just about every continent and island, each and every one unique and dedicated, but to be true when I get asked at 8.30am if I want to pay 125 quid an hour to use someones body, it seems to Me that the oldest game in the book has now invaded what the massed hordes have also invaded as well. Fuckin' beauty, so now collarme has become a pimp ride for those whose only dedication is to money. Ahhhhh the changing face of Bdsm roflmfao.

9/1/2007 1:23:27 AM When will true-hearts to this Way of Life begin to understand that this web, which allows those with the required natural inclinations towards surrender and Ownership, in whatever degree, comprehend that it also allows those whose interest in this Way of Life is not natural web access as well. I have watched with interest the comments and responses that many post in endeavouring to understand why those without the true-hearts required impart rudeness to O/others on many occasions, simply because they do not have the acceptability nor responsibility to the protocols and dictates that this way of Life demands from those within it. But to those whose hearts are true, try and remember that on the web, you are also dealing with those humans who are not natural to this Way of Life, so be patient and do not allow those who have no natural inclination nor fundamental understanding of what is required to surrender or Own ( to whatever degree your personal obligations allow )  This Way of Life is in truth about not only your O/own personal and private dictates and drives, but also about your level of acceptability, in whatever form they may be found. But always remember that as a true-heart your honesty and integrity are your mainstays, they make you no less, nor no more than any other human on this Earth, but they are what make you, Y/you !   There is no requirement for Y/you to explain the drive and intensity to serve and surrender yourself, nor are any slurs worth responding to. Because those who feel the need to denigrate are not true-hearts, nor for all their piety or misdirected wit will they ever be true-hearts. They are those whose minds are locked into a vanilla world of lies and deceit. They will never comprehend or understand the natural and intense lust for this Way of Life, nor will they ever serve or Own another, simply because they live in a world of fantasy, a world without responsibility, obligation, dedication, devotion and truth ! They are the massed hordes whose indoctrinations are fixed and peurile. They exist within a world where the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence, never appreciating that as a human you expect nothing more than life, and everything after that is a gift. So for those rare and beautiful true-hearts I implore that within your O/own levels of acceptability, at times give thought to those who will never possess the natural facet that this Way of Life requires, because were it not for the fact that Bdsm is a most natural facet in a rare few humans, W/we as a whole would not exist at all, and that would mean that I, as an Owner, would be alone yet still smiling, even though surrounded by the massed hordes of the vanilla world and their incomprehensible ways. Be true in all that Y/you attend true-hearts for there is no other Way of Life.