Findom for me is just an extension of both TPE and Femdom.

I set a subs allowance because he BELONGS to me, his money is my money, I am the one in power here. That is what it means to have a Female Lead the Relationship, that whatever relationship you are in?

She's Completely Leading It.

If you are a slave? Then you are nothing but her tool, your money is hers, you don't get a say beyond thanking her for making good use of you.

So many submissives and those claiming to be "slaves" talk a bit game about how they're willing to give up "everything" for their Domme, their jobs, their dignity, their body, everything...
Except...

Money...

I have a sub right now who talks about how he's begging and wanting me to use him to the fullest extent, on my terms, that he can handle anything I want from him, but refuses to be a finsub. 
And I'm willing to respect that, after all I know that this is a FETISH and your kink is not my kink and that's OKAY!

But how.
fucking.
fast.

I find out when he says "Willing to do anything for me" he means "Anything that gets HIM off on HIS schedule based on HIS needs" but y'know without him putting in any actual work.
"I have no kinks! I have no fantasies! No desires of my own! I have no limits, all I want to do is please you in any way I can!" he says...

He says and then expect me to make time out of my day, with my toys to use on him because he owns none of his own, because he also has no desire to drop everything and come to me when I actually want to just make use of him I have to travel to him...

Sorry my friend, that's not how this shit works.

Dick? I can get that anywhere, I've got one under my bed right now that can probably do a better job of sexually pleasing me than any sub ever could.

Someone willing to submit to me? I've got an inbox full of asshole's who think they can and I already have a sweet pet and pretty sissy who already work so hard to worship and submit to me, neither of which are currently tributing because like I said, I don't need it so I haven't asked, they've been pleasing me in other ways.

The willingness to give me the REAL and SOLID power to destroy you? The willingness to fully submit to me with your very body and soul? To ACTUALLY hand over EVERYTHING? 

This is priceless and so few slaves are actually willing to take that dive and honestly it just makes me sad when I see them try to pretend like they're ready and willing.

Slaves who really want to submit and are willing to do everything should have no problem with Tribute, with their Domme controlling their finances.

Money is unfortunately the thing that makes the world go around and using it as a tool? It is instant and as painful and demeaning as any punishment or degrading thing I could ever do to someone.

It's as intoxicating as it is sad, that so much of our WORTH as people gets boiled down to cash and our ability to procure it.

A finsub just willing to give me that power is worth more than any actual dollar amount he could offer.

This is what it means for me to be a Goddess.

A sub with a million dollars but CAPS what he's willing to give? Can fuck clean off into the sun even if he were to offer me half of all his riches.

A sub giving me $5 when they only have $10 and offering me the rest if I were to ask for it is worth more than anything to me.

I'm not in this for the money, not the pain, not anything except that level of absolute devotion.