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xio8up
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I really want to find a man who isn't afraid to discipline me and make me his... who will instruct me and guide me in the best ways to make him happy... I want to feel like my body is under his control, but that he'll treasure and protect it, like a precious gift... Above all, I want to feel cared for, but still possessed... I want to make the one who does all of this for me as happy as he will have made me...
I'd like to first find a normal boyfriend that then transitions into my Dom... I feel like a Dom must first earn my trust before I'll submit to him, and there's no way I can know him enough to trust him that much without first getting to know him in a real time relationship...
I want to find someone who enjoys doing kinky things in the bedroom, and also being the leader and ultimate decision maker in our relationship. If you're looking for a temporary playmate or one night stand, I'm not the girl for you. Please don't contact me if you just want easy sex...
I love being with a dominant man who knows what he wants... A man who can both hold me gently or be a bit rough when he feels an urge... A man who would never really hurt me, but knows sometimes I crave the roughness too... and sometimes I need discipline to feel a stronger bond with him...
I love being with a dominant male who can guide me and lead me, but still allow me to live my life as well...
I'm very curious about trying a Daddy/little girl type of relationship, or a taken in hand/domestic discipline kind of relationship... something where the dynamic of Dominant/submissive is always present, but not a Master/slave relationship.
I want to be cuddled sometimes and then other times be put over a knee have my skirt pulled up and my panties pulled down and have my bare bottom soundly spanked...
I crave mild forms of pain from a man who treasures me... I have found in vanilla relationships that if I don't have any mild pain administered, or at least be taken roughly every now and then so I can feel the man's power, I start to get anxious and agitated, like there's an itch I just can't quite reach...
I don't do so well with verbal abuse, or serous attacks on my ego... dirty talk though, if it's done in a playful manner, is a definite turn on.
My hard limits would have to be any form of public humiliation and anything that leaves permanent marks. I don't do anything with animals, dead people, children, etc. And I also don't want to be shared or have a Dom who also has other submissives.
Mild to medium forms of pain are okay as long as they don't leave permanent marks, and I'd prefer if medium levels of pain were used only when I was in trouble for discipline purposes.
Some other information about me non bedroom related:
- I love science fiction and fantasy, both books and movies
- I love sailing, skiing, camping, walks on the beach
- I have a dog that I love very much
- I can be very shy at times and I'm not super outgoing
- I play the occasional video game
- I have what some might call a little extra padding; I'm not a super model. Of course there will be pictures upon request, though I refuse to answer any weight questions unless I'm actually your submissive and have been claimed.
- Some of you may have noticed my profile before had said I was about to be claimed: unfortunately, the chemistry was wrong and it didn't work out.
- Please don't send me the emails that say something like, "Get on your knees, bitch and contact me for further instructions", 'cause I'm not going to be contacting you.
I know that was a lot of information, so thank you for taking the time to read all of it :)
Hope to hear from you soon,
-SeaNymphsEmbrace
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Also, I don't respond well to emails that are obviously standard messages that you send out in mass, or messages that just say "hello, want to chat?". I especially don't respond well when you ask the, "hello, want to chat?" and your profile is completely blank... i feel like these are signs that you're looking for an easy hookup, and as I stated before, I don't do that... |
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I feel bad posting this, but its gotten to a point where I think I really need to... if you're over 43, the likelihood of me wanting to become your submissive is very slim. If I got an amazing email that really spoke to me, I might be willing to stretch that age a little bit, but for the most part, 43 has been my cutoff age. I hadn't posted this before because I didn't want to seem mean, and I figured maybe I would get a really amazing email that might change my mind, but I just received a very, very bad response to what I thought was a very polite explanation that the age difference was just too great between us.
For the most part, people have been very polite on here, but there keeps being these random individuals who can be incredibly mean... I know that they are hurting and that's why they're lashing out, but seriously, they don't know me, we haven't met, they've only seen pretty much just my hair on my profile, is it really fair to lash out so harshly against me?
So anyways, that's why I'm posting age limits now...
Also, on the other side of things, I'm also not looking be a submissive to anyone who is more than a year or two younger than me at most. |
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I hope people won't contact me if all they're looking for is easy sex... I like sex, I like a lot of sex, but with someone who I'm in a relationship with... Sex makes me feel chemically, emotionally bound to a man, and it's an amazing feeling as long as the man wants me. But I need to be able to trust that the man isn't looking for an easy lay, that he'll be there for me in the morning, and that's going to take time to find out... I really don't want to be hurt in that way... a spanked bottom is an okay way to hurt me :) but messing with my chemicals when you aren't serious about me isn't okay...
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