Greetings. Before you write, please read the entire profile.

If you do choose to write, please attach a photo if you don't have one posted. I don't accept chat requests here nor do I instant message elsewhere until I have an idea who I am chatting with.

~ What I am not ~
~ I'm not built for a poly-household/relationship
~ I'm not here to play silly on-line games
~ I'm not into cyber/phone or text-sex
~ I don’t indulge in cyber Domination
~ “Play partners” are not on my list of things to acquire

~ What I am ~

At this point in my life, I’m seeking nothing less than a LTR. If you seek chastity? You’re in the wrong profile. I have no interest in a long term relationship without the benefits of physical intimacy. I’m hetero-monogamous and expect the same.

I’m not seeking a doormat or a punching bag (although I can a bit sadistic at times, it’s generally mental in nature, well, unless it’s not. *tee hee*) I’m exceptionally understanding, kind and considerate. This shouldn’t be mistaken for something it’s not. I won’t tolerate silliness, dramatics or other undesirable traits. In addition? I have NO interest in micro-managing someone. In time, I’d expect to NOT have to manage at all.

~ Who are you? ~
If the term “boyfriend” bothers you? You'd find me bothersome. If I simply wanted a boy-toy, I'd not be here ~ those are soooo easy to find.

If we don't "fit" on levels outside of a BDSM context? We won't fit in a BDSM context, either.

I love my vanilla life. Hobbies, friends/family, passions & interests, etc. I need someone who has a happy, fulfilled life that is enriched by their BDSM interests rather than someone who lives for their BDSM interests and time-fills with their vanilla life. If our ideologies don't match on this note, we would not be well-suited for one another. I expect the person in my life to wholly participate in my life. There’s no such thing as a “dirty little secret” with me. The vanilla world would likely think we are no different than they are.

Final thoughts?

Mutual physical attraction matters. So does intellectual/emotional chemistry.

Diet & exercise/health & fitness are part of my everyday life. I need the same in a partner. No need to be a gym-rat, but being healthy/fit is a must.