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Greetings. Before you write, please read the entire profile.

If you do choose to write, please attach a photo if you don't have one posted. I don't accept chat requests here nor do I instant message elsewhere until I have an idea who I am chatting with.


~ What I am not ~
~ I'm not built for a poly-household/relationship
~ I'm not here to play silly on-line games
~ I'm not into cyber/phone or text-sex
~ I don’t indulge in cyber Domination
~ “Play partners” are not on my list of things to acquire


~ What I am ~

At this point in my life, I’m seeking nothing less than a LTR. If you seek chastity? You’re in the wrong profile. I have no interest in a long term relationship without the benefits of physical intimacy. I’m hetero-monogamous and expect the same.


I’m not seeking a doormat or a punching bag (although I can a bit sadistic at times, it’s generally mental in nature, well, unless it’s not. *tee hee*) I’m exceptionally understanding, kind and considerate. This shouldn’t be mistaken for something it’s not. I won’t tolerate silliness, dramatics or other undesirable traits. In addition? I have NO interest in micro-managing someone. In time, I’d expect to NOT have to manage at all.


~ Who are you? ~
If the term “boyfriend” bothers you? You'd find me bothersome. If I simply wanted a boy-toy, I'd not be here ~ those are soooo easy to find.


If we don't "fit" on levels outside of a BDSM context? We won't fit in a BDSM context, either.


I love my vanilla life. Hobbies, friends/family, passions & interests, etc. I need someone who has a happy, fulfilled life that is enriched by their BDSM interests rather than someone who lives for their BDSM interests and time-fills with their vanilla life. If our ideologies don't match on this note, we would not be well-suited for one another. I expect the person in my life to wholly participate in my life. There’s no such thing as a “dirty little secret” with me. The vanilla world would likely think we are no different than they are.


Final thoughts?

Mutual physical attraction matters. So does intellectual/emotional chemistry.


Diet & exercise/health & fitness are part of my everyday life. I need the same in a partner. No need to be a gym-rat, but being healthy/fit is a must.



I'm not interested in those much younger than myself, nor those much older.

~ Good luck with your search ~

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4/13/2011 6:18:03 PM

~ Rant of the Day ~

I'd like to think we are all here out of our individual interests in aspects of the "lifestyle."  Waaaay back when (yeah, the good ol' days) people here on CM approached others with respect.  Polite emails, introductions of sorts.  Today?  WTH?  It's no surprise to me why SO many don't post pictures here ~ I'd not be willing to have my face next to many of the emails I receive.  Have people forgotten that sending a contact email is the equivalent to approaching a stranger in the offline world? I think the last time a stranger walked up to me on the street and asked if I was a "fuck-pig" was, well, how about NEVER!!!  The longer I'm here, the more I realize that people who live behind a wall of anonymity, really should very likely live behind a wall of anonymity.  Makes me wonder if they were bottle or breast fed.  There must be a reason they are so vile.

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mylittlewhitesub
 
 Age: 20
 Gateshead, United Kingdom