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Okay, you want to know about Me? Lets start with a little blunt honesty.

I am not an Expert Dom. I havent trained a stable full of slaves, Im not an encyclopedic reference on BDSM, and I dont have a personal dungeon full of equipment, toys, and s de what the fuck is THAT??? I am growing into my comfort zone and still exploring My interests. If you think that makes Me somehow inadequate or a failure, I cant help that. Remember, though, all the experts out there started somewhere, too.



Drug free, disease free, nondrinker, non smoker, single, no kids.



Im looking for a subslave with a mind of her own. Yes, loyalty and obedience are expected, thats a given. I want the pleasure of a little surprise on our relationship. Acts of initiative that show her devotion to our involvement and her place in it. Even if in her headspace she sees herself as girl or this one, theres still room for things like this.



Body type isnt as much of a concern for me. From thin to rubenesque, every woman is like a musical instrument unique in her qualities, needing attention to determine how to draw the sweetest notes from her.





Now, having said that, Im going to flip the expectations on their heads a little, and give a list of what Im NOT looking for or NOT interested in. This is an easier list for Me to put together



1. I am NOT looking for someone I can beat to a pulp when Ive had a bad day, Im bored, or for any other reason. Pain has its place, but I dont need regular hospital visits.

2. In similar vein (pun intended), Im not interested in slicing up someone like Im playing amateur surgeon nor am I interested in blood play. Theres a reason its supposed to be on the INSIDE, you know.

3. If I wanted to touch underage children, Id have become a Catholic priest. NO MINORS!!!

4. Likewise, Im not looking to replace Steve Irwin. NO ANIMALS!

5. The toilet in My bathroom works just fine, I dont need another one. NO SCAT!

6. Have a brain in your head. Sure, the bimbo schtick is a nice thing now and then, but I LIKE having intelligent conversations.

7. Guys, if youre a cuckold, gay, bi, TS, CD, or MtF, I respect your life choice but I have no interest in it. Im interested in women.



There will be more to follow, but this should be a good start for now.

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6/17/2017 9:20:21 PM
Thought to ponder:

You know it's going to be a bad night when you walk into a strip club and the hottest woman in the place is the waitress.

1/23/2016 8:56:08 PM
Found this a few days back going through some old files. It was a writing challenge to myself to write a comprehensive but balanced slave contract.

(For those with more extreme desires/interests, I understand this contract may seem rather bland; it could easily be modified to fit them.)

Constructive criticism and opinions welcome.


CONTRACT:

    i, ________________________________________, of my own free will, do hereby petition __________________________________________ (henceforth to be referred to in this document as "Master"), to accept ownership of me as His property.  
    i understand that, by virtue of this Contract, i willfully and knowingly surrender any and all rights and status i would ordinarily have as a person, save whatever rights Master may accord me (subject to being rescinded if He choose) and the rights specifically outlined in this Contract.
    (Note: The words "my" or "mine" used within this Contract in relation to myself are for the purpose of simplicity and brevity.  It is understood that by presentation and acceptance of this Contract that i officially renounce any form of "ownership" i may have to anything, tangible or intangible, except where specifically listed otherwise.)

    Section 1: Health and Safety

    1. By acceptance of this contract, Master accepts a measure of responsibility for my health and well-being.  Said responsibility involves all duties, rules, and activities Master may assign, as well as behaviors Master may knowingly instruct or allow me to engage in.
    A. i understand i am obligated, above and beyond Master's instructions, to maintain myself in a fit and healthy manner in order to properly serve Master in accordance with the Contract.  While specifics may be discussed with Master, i will ensure at least a minimal effort is placed in regard to diet and exercise to ensure my fitness and health is maintained.
    B. i understand i am obligated to avoid obviously self-destructive behaviors.  While i may be permitted at Master's discretion to engage in measured behaviors that would not be considered healthy (drinking, smoking, etc), i will make a deliberate effort to not engage in such behaviors to excess.  i will discuss any such behaviors i may have with Master, in the interest of finding an agreeable level of involvement.  Should i engage in an incident of extreme behavior, i will inform Master and accept punishment for my behavior as He may deem fit.
    C. In the event of illness or injury, Master (if not present) will be notified at the earliest opportunity, with all relevant information provided.
    D. i enter into this Contract with the agreed understanding that Master will never knowingly command me to do anything which would result in harm to me. For the purpose of this contract, "harm" is defined as physical damage or which would result in injury, permanent disfigurement, or worse.  Actions which result in pain or minor blemishing (welts, reddened skin, mild swelling, mild bruising, or mild skin abrasions) as a result of extreme effort or punishment do not apply.
    E. In the event Master should command me to carry out an action that i reasonably believe will result in harm, i will request clarification and explain my concern.  If i find Master's clarification to be insufficient, i may invoke my Safe Word (see below) and request further explanation.  i will point out my concerns with what is being commanded of me, and work with Master to either work out the issue or find an acceptable alternate solution.  In the event no alternate can be found, the activity will be considered temporarily "off limits", until an alternative may be reached.

    Section 2: Legal Status

    1. Although acceptance of this Contract results in my renouncing my rights as a person, i understand that society at large will not recognize it as legally binding.  i will remember my place and engage in whatever discreet submissive behaviors are possible when in a public setting without causing a scene.
    A. i will avoid engaging in unlawful behavior to the best of my ability, as legal entanglements would prevent me from serving Master properly.
    B. In the event a legal issue should arise, Master (if not present) will be notified at the earliest opportunity, with all relevant information provided.
    C. In the event Master should command me to carry out an action that i reasonably believe will result in legal issue, i may request clarification and explain my concern.  If i find Master's clarification to be insufficient, i may invoke my Safe Word (see below) and request further explanation.  i will point out my concerns with what is being commanded of me, and work with Master to either work out the issue or find an acceptable alternate solution.  In the event no alternate can be found, the activity will be considered temporarily "off limits", until an alternative may be reached.

    Section 3: Obligations

    1. i accept that, by virtue of this Contract, i am bound to follow Master's commands without question or hesitation, except in cases as mentioned in Sections 1 and 2 above, or as further listed in this Contract. i will carry out all commands given me to the best of my ability.
    A. In the event i am commanded to do something i am inexperienced with, i will point out my inexperience to Master and request His observation and guidance (if possible) to ensure i perform correctly.  If His observation and guidance are not possible, i will practice until such time as i can perform for Master to ensure i am carrying out His command correctly.
    B. In the event that i am commanded to adopt a style of behavior (speech, posture, physical activity), i will practice whenever the opportunity presents itself to perfect the behavior.  If Master is not available to observe, i will keep Him informed of my progress.
    2. i acknowledge that my new status inherently requires that i be pleasing at all times for Master, to the best of my ability.  Beyond merely following His commands, i will learn His moods, habits, routines, and preferences.  In so doing, i will learn how to please Him no matter the situation or circumstances.

    Section 4: Ownership

    1. i acknowledge that, by virtue of this Contract, i renounce all control over my body and give Master the authority to access, display, or use my body whenever/wherever/however He desires, except as agreed upon herein.  Unless in a roleplay setting or commanded otherwise, i will offer no resistance to Master's use of my body, save to prevent anything that would accidentally harm me.  Should i be placed in a setting or otherwise commanded to resist, i will do so in such a way that does not risk harming Master, and such resistance will cease immediately on command.
    2. i acknowledge that, by virtue of this contract, i also give Master full ownership of my mind and its contents.  i will keep no secrets from Master.  Any questions He may give me will be answered honestly and completely, to the best of my ability.

    Section 5: Punishments

    1. i acknowledge that as a slave i will be subject to punishment, at Master's discretion, for any transgressions i may commit.  While it is agreed that Master will tell me what i am being punished for, He may choose to first test me to see if i am aware of the transgression i have committed.
    2. i will remember at all times that punishments are a tool to help me learn to better serve Master.  While the punishment i receive may be painful, it is not an act of cruelty.  As such, i will accept my punishment and thank Master when it is completed for caring enough to correct my behavior.
    3. Punishments may be physical (slapping, spanking, uncomfortable positions, physical restraint, etc.) or mental (recited meditation, writing assignments, etc.) as Master should so choose.
    4. In the event i feel a punishment being inflicted is in danger of causing me harm (as described in 1D) i am allowed to use my Safeword to suspend punishment until it can be assured that actual harm will not occur.  It will be at Master's discretion whether to continue punishment from where it was suspended, or to start again from the beginning.

    Section 6: Safeword

    1. my safeword is the only thing i possess that i do not surrender as part of this Contract.  my safeword is inviolable, intended to protect my life and well-being.  UPON PRONOUNCEMENT OF THE SAFEWORD, ANY ACTIVITY i AN ENGAGED IN WILL STOP IMMEDIATELY.
    A. my safeword will be agreed upon with Master, and a separate nonverbal safe signal will also be agreed upon for instances where i am unable to speak.
    2. i acknowledge that my safeword is not intended for frivolous use. i will not use my safeword unless i honestly feel i am in some form of legitimate danger. Should i use my safeword, i will immediately inform Master why i used it and what my concerns are.
    A. i understand that frivolous use of my safeword may result in punishment, or even in dismissal from Master's service.


Section 7: Agreed Rituals and behaviors:

_____________________________________

Section 8: Agreed Limitations and "Off-Limits" Behaviors and Punishments

_____________________________________

Section 9: Safeword and Nonverbal Safe Signal

_____________________________________

Section 10: Other Notes and Details

____________________________________



Signed:_______________________________

Date:________________________________

Printed Signature:______________________


Master Signature:______________________

Date:________________________________

1/8/2016 6:24:00 AM
How incredibly frustrating...

The other day my profile was checked out by 26 men (yes, I counted) and 1 woman who had a big allcaps "NO MEN" at the start of her profile.

I really have to wonder what I'm doing wrong.

9/27/2013 1:54:39 PM

Thought to ponder...

Why do so many claim to be a "no limits" type, and then produce a laundry list of what they expect in a Dom/Owner?

It seems to Me that narrowing down Whom a sub/slave is willing to serve is in itself a limit.

Perhaps I continue to overthink...


9/10/2013 2:24:14 PM

Thought to ponder...

Why do so many subs/slaves feel the need to express a lack of interest in death? I mean, besides the extremity of it, you can only do it once to begin with...


6/11/2013 7:53:53 AM

Thought to ponder...

I find it curious how many fail to understand that limits go in both directions, that "not enough" is as relevant as "too much".

In conversations with several so-called "no limits" submissives, in comparing what they offered against what I was looking for, I often received some form of response stating that what I wanted was insufficient to meet their needs.

While I understand some seek more extreme forms of service, submission, and punishment, it seems to me that failure or refusal to accept such things in a less extreme form is in itself a limitation, thus putting the lie to a so-called "no limits" claim.

Perhaps I overthink this...


6/10/2013 10:38:04 PM

Frustrating...

As usual, most that I find interesting feel I'm too old or too far away for them.

*grins faintly* Or the ones who find interest in Me are the wrong gender. (sorry guys, you're not My type)

The search continues...


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