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| Constantly updating so always read! I don't mind chatting with anyone, but just be real. The pics are of me. I don't like seeing fake pics, so you can always expect mine to be real. There are lots of fake people in the world; don't be one of them! It may take time to return an email, so be patient.
My two strongest dislikes: fake profiles and rudeness. I have no time for either one.
Just curious about the lifestyle again. I was involved for quite awhile about 8 years ago. Ex-military, college educated, self-controlled, strong and disciplined dominant yet compassionate, showing mercy when necessary. I have a genius-level IQ. I suppose you could say I'm an "adrenaline junkie" (parachuting, long-term survival training). I'm also skilled at intelligence-gathering, investigations and interrogation.
My adult children and I have great relationships. They turned out to very disciplined, educated and successful adults. I took an active role in their lives to train them. Being someone's father figure to train them successfully is very rewarding. Family is important to me, so I am discreet. No one needs to know the private affairs of anyone. This will not be violated, as it is unacceptable. Additionally, all actions must have prior consent by all parties involved.
I was the dominant for a sub male for quite awhile, but never physically sexual. I have been dom for a few older females. I love older submissive women in stockings, begging.
I'm strictly a dom. Don't bother asking me to be a sub, ever. I will help you in fantasies of having a dom for anything that brings pleasure to you. I will simply provide training with commands and obedience, as well as proper disciplinary action as needed. I'm flexible and non-judgemental, but remember I'm a heterosexual dom.
I am a very spiritual person, but there are no categories on here that fit me. I love the psychological aspects of BDSM. I love intellectual stimulation. I love finding out what makes people who they are and why they do what they do. I love to get into someone's mind. I will never do anything that would cause serious harm. I'm very careful of that, by setting limits.
I would never subject anyone to any type of pain, physically or psychologically, that I haven't felt before. It fascinates me knowing how far a human can be pushed, "testing the boundaries of reality" (Jim Morrison). Never be reckless or rude though.
Age,race, size, social-economic background, etc are not important, but trust is ;-)
Fantasies are one thing, while illegal activity is another. Again I emphasize consent. Use of force against an unwilling individual is abuse of power. Proper hygiene is important to me. Feces, children, cutting, torture, medical procedures--NO. More off limit practices will be added as issues come up. You're human; I respect you. With that being said, I find training and discipline rewarding by seeing a person grow as an individual, reaching toward maximum potential. Absolute trust for someone to guide you toward that is not an option.
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I am a respectful gentleman, but I believe in discipline. Clear rules must be presented along with disciplinary actions that must take place if the rules are violated. We have rules for a reason-- they give us order in our lives. However, along with rules, there are also rewards for proper behavior. It bothers me when people can't differentiate between punishment and discipline. Discipline helps us understand the caring nature a dom has for a sub in order that the sub reach full potential.
Training and discipline are inseparable and must be consistent, and out of love. FYI i don't believe in "falling in love." Love is only seeking the best interest of a person. It is in the best interest of a sub to serve well and have needs met. Submitting to someone is an exchange-- a sub submits obviously, while the dom trains and disciplines, meeting the needs of a sub under his responsible care. Both are to have their needs met.
We place an emphasis on outward appearance too much to determine beauty and ugliness. I believe ugliness and beauty only refer to inward attitudes-- the ugliness of hate and rebellion against proper order as opposed to the beauty of submission and humility, I suppose. |
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I am Scottish and Native American. I occasionally wear a kilt in public places with nothing underneath...except boots. |
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| Age: 32 |
| Zanesville,
Ohio |
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