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I am sincere and devoted, not a mindless sub. I'm looking to connect with someone on all levels, not just in the bedroom. Intelligence is a huge turn-on, as is someone who has both an "edge" (intensity) *and* is caring and considerate. Honestly, quality snuggling and loving touch are just as important to me as good "play".
I consider myself to be attractive, intelligent, caring, sensitive, and worthy of someone who is very much the same. I don't just "submit" to anyone, my submission is a precious and valuable gift. If I decide to trust someone I *will* give myself intensely, but quite frankly that trust isn't given to just anyone.
As far as kink goes, I have my preferences of course, but I'm also very willing to try new things and I've been surprised at how many new things I've ended up liking :) Though I will say I'm *definitely* not into any of the verboten triad (blood, urine, or scat).
I should also say I'm not "poly"; I don't share well, nor do I want to be shared :)
I am a deeply caring person, and deeply devoted to making my partner happy. But that doesn't mean I don't have a life either - I have an active social life, friends, hobbies, etc. and I'm not about to give that up for a 24/7 all-the-time lifestyle thing. I would hope that my partner would also have a life, and not even think about asking me to give up mine.
I am drug and disease free, and in fact I rarely even drink, probably less than once a month or two at this point. I take good care of my body through healthy eating and working out, and I'd hope that my partner would also take pride in her body too.
That doesn't mean that someone has to be "perfect" - it's really much, much more about someone's "energy" (intensity, intelligence, etc.). But be reasonably attractive and enjoy the sensuality of your body and yourself - there's nothing sexier than that.
Above all, be real. Don't be another pro-domme looking for clients, or looking for someone into "financial submission".
I know this may come off as pretty demanding, but I know who I am, what I want, and most importantly, that I have a lot to give the right person.
With all that said, I never mind communicating with like-minded folks, trading information, being helpful, etc. Some of my hobbies include astrology, gothic/industrial music and clubs, reiki and other psychic/healing work, tarot/runes, vegetarianism/veganism, comic books (DC/Vertigo), and other general geekery and vague spirituality (nothing too poofy, but I like to conjecture).
So if anything here strikes a chord with you, feel free to say hello :)
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