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| Some things about me that matter:
I am empathic. What others around me feel, I also sense. It is a trait that serves me well.
I am spiritual. My connection with the universe, its laws, and its Creator is something I cherish. It is central to my paradigm of life.
I am not one who believes D/s is everything. That said, I could argue that everything is D/s. I am not one to believe in protocol for protocol's sake, but protocol exists only to create beauty in a relationship.
This isn't about sex for me, not really. D/s is about creating a mental and emotional bond between two people, not about kinky sex. Are there things about D/s and BDSM that have a sexual allure to me? Absolutely. However, I am of the strong opinion that a good D/s relationship should be able to operate in the absence of sexual involvement. Of course, don't confuse sexual with sensual; sensuality provides wonderful methods of expressing dominance and submission, and I love that side of this life. In my opinion, the sex comes later.
Etiquette is a beautiful thing. I don't see it as out of place when I open a door for a submissive, or hold her chair. Unless or until a different code of protocol is set, I would expect a submissive to follow the general etiquette that has been developed in the western world. If, when meeting a submissive, she can't grasp that standard protocol, how can I expect she will hold up later if I were to establish a more intricate ritual?
Dance. I am a dancer; it can consume huge amounts of my life (sometimes as much as 30 hours a week). Partner dancing is an experience I cherish, especially when it is with someone I care about. The pure lead and follow connection in dancing fits so well into D/s. If you hear me talk about D/s, it isn't uncommon to hear me using dance as a metaphor. If you want to impress me, learn to dance. If you want to learn, just ask!
I am a nerd; I am a geek. There isn't any changing that, and I wouldn't if I tried. I study physics and do physics research. Video games were made to be enjoyed. It isn't my defining characteristic, but it is all part of who I am. I make no claims to my intelligence; there is always someone smarter out there; even I don't have hubris enough to claim there isn't.
What I am looking for:
I hope to meet a submissive female who is interested in working toward a 24/7 relationship.
Age: I would like someone relatively near me in age; while I prefer someone younger, I am not adverse to the idea of someone a bit older. No, I don't plan on putting a specific limit on it. Can I see myself dominating someone 20 years more than myself? Not in more than a scene or a casual relationship. That said, if I were to develop the right connection with such a person, I don't think I would have a problem with it, either.
Physically: I suppose there are many who will call me shallow for having this section at all, but here it is. I tend to be attracted to petite women with a feminine figure. I tend to prefer lighter skin. All this is simply my tendencies. I have found myself attracted to people who don't fit any of this, so don't take it as more than my commenting on my tendancies.
Dance: Dancing is a huge part of my life, and it will be a part of my submissive's life. Props to those who know how already, but if you are willing to learn, that is just fine too!
Grace: Perhaps it is from my background in dance, but one of the most attractive traits a submissive can develop is grace in movement.
There isn't any particular kink I am looking for, aside from the control, the power exchange. All the rest is just fun and games to add in for me. I don't think there is anything kink related that is am absolute must for me. Lots of interests though.
Females interested in submitting only. I am not bi or gay. I have no problems with male submissives, but don't ask to submit to me. Likewise, I don't do role reversal. While I am more than happy to converse with anyone, and make friends and acquaintances, don't expect or ask for more than that.
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