|
|
|
|
Im still alive and still a redheaded spitfire looking for a relationship after being inactive for a period of several months again. I need to find a better means of communication, Im working on it now. I have been single for about 4? years now since deciding I wont get into a relationship again until its worth my time and his. I have my B.S. in Psychology and work in mental health. I support myself. I have plans to return to school in the future, I am always craving more, and that extends into many areas of my life, including knowledge.
In my personal and work life I am assertive and prize my independence. The same cannot be said of my sex life, in which I enjoy relinquishing that control (most days, some days I can promise punishment will be well deserved). In order for a man to exert that control into any other areas of my life, he would need to command my undeniable respect first and I dont just let any man dominate me. I have had vanilla relationships and Im bored out of my mind. Anyway, respect and trust are key for me and just so youre aware, sending me dirty messages off the bat are not going to get the job done so please stop.
I have curves, if thats a problem, move along. I am indeed a real woman but have recently lost a bit of weight. I have smaller breasts and a large bottom. I have piercing hazel eyes, 5 tattoos, naturally dark brown hair colored scarlet red, sometimes burgundy, a little past my shoulders that I generally wear wavy on a regular day. I have glasses that I wear regularly at work and when on the computer but I set them aside when I go out.
I am looking for a man to challenge me in ways that I have not been before. I am not experienced in all aspects of a Ds relationship although Im fairly educated in it. All my past relationships have been...well, lets say sprinkled with light BDSM and I want, no need more. The vanilla life is slowly killing me and nothing else seems to suffice anymore. Once again, since my last login months ago, this has stayed true and if anything, Im even more out of my mind bored. The longer this continues, the more severe and extensive my daydreams and fantasies become.
I am not too tied down to Rochester but also not relocating without good reason, VERY good reason, I have a job and co-workers I really enjoy. This is more than a request for a sexual relationship, its a request for ownership in the bedroom and hopefully more... I crave the man that can enslave my mind as well as my body with his presence. I have yet to find the man that can tame me. Some of my limits are still to be discovered. To discuss further, feel free to contact me.
Also, I would like to state that I have not added pictures to protect my privacy, if you would like to exchange pictures and things are going well, thats fine with me. Apparently there are a lot of fake women on here, I can easily prove I am indeed real. I was going to post some that were cropped but it seems silly to do so to prove a point to those I do not wish to. The age range of 25-45 generally works for me. When I say I am looking for someone my age or a little older, thats what I mean. Please take this into consideration, if youre older than that age range, Im probably not interested. I dont know if this sounds picky or conceited but I am mainly trying to be upfront to prevent any confusion. Apparently it does have to be said. Please message me if you are interested in talking, I would love to get to know you if you think you may be what I am looking for!
Sidenote, for the second time I was gone for an extended period due to personal issues. I did not purposefully ignore any messages, so please know that.
|
|
|
|
