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DomDoctor1
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| I am a submissive at heart, slave to very few. I switch, though I do not seek a Dominant I can switch with. I'm bi and poly so the dynamic of being an alpha with my own sub/slave is very appealing to me. I'm a sensation junkie, cum slut, pain slut, rope slut and enjoy both mental and physical edgeplay. I am level headed, athletic, self balancing, strong willed, fiesty, competitive and self empowered. I have competed nationally in a hobby for over 20 years and I am also a Divemaster, so I eagerly dive wrecks with the "big boys."
I thrive in and need the D/s dynamic and seek a Dominant who has the inner strength, self control and wisdom to gain my respect. I live this RT and am proud of myself and my lifestyle choice. I enjoy the public side of it as well but I don't need a partner who is public, just someone who will respect and encourage my journey in that realm without jealousy. I seek permanancy and a continuation of my journey.
The mind and a matching of personalities is most important to me. Listing the toys you own and use are far from my first interests. My own toybag is chock full of toys I not only have made, but am proficient in using. Be intelligent, able to converse, have your own interests and hobbies, be creative, have control of yourself and your life and a touch of twisted humor will always bring a smile to me.
I am not limiting my search to Dominants only, I am bi so the right Domme is also a possibility. Since I switch, I am very open to finding a sub/slave that could complete me as well. That sub/slave should be well rounded in life, open minded, be prepared to be real and meet, curious and enjoy exploring. I am a sensual sadist, so pain is one of my needs. I am not a Mommy, an online or tribute Domme, nor do I have an interest in micro-managing a sub/slave.
I do have pictures available upon request but please consider yourself forewarned....... I choose who I exchange them with. A request doesn't imply that I will send them to you, especially if you feel that stating you are a Dominant gives you the power to demand them of me.
I enjoy a healthy, well rounded life that is centered in the D/s dynamic but it is not the "whole" of my life. I do not seek to become the "fantasy slave" of the "Marketplace" series or a sub/slave that needs constant discipline. I value trust and truth and enjoy the symbiotic relationship that exists between a Dominant and their submissive, we are equals who live the roles we feel within our core. I do not have an "on/off" switch though and incorporate my role in my daily life. I seek the security of a permanent LTR.... I am not seeking "weekend ownership" or playdates.
I seek an open minded and creative life partner to enjoy exploring what doors are yet to be opened. I need to continue exploring all that there is and the role I choose will be based upon our personal chemistry. There are many who can "talk the walk", fewer who can "walk the talk."
I walk the talk.... do you have the strength to be completely honest with yourself and me and dare to take this journey with me? Do you believe that you possess the wisdom, patience and strength needed to earn my respect and make me need to kneel before you? Can you touch and inspire me in such a way that you bring out my need to guide, nurture and uplift your submissive spirit?
Do you believe in yourself enough to face the challenge I present and imagine the joy that can be found within the journey with me?
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Well folks, I have taken the big step and moved forward with expanding my small business.... step right in and have a look around ( I know, it looks a lot like I have only managed to wall off a small part of the carport with scrap plywood I collected from the roadside but heh, it did cut start-up costs tremendously)
On these two walls, you can see a wide variety of high quality, multi-colored fine leather collars, inexpensive and yet so convenient.... well, again, I saved costs. They are actually part of a huge box of chinese-made faux leather dog collars I found in a dumpster but I did take the time to not only spray paint them in bright colors and here's the great thing....... I removed those difficult to handle catches and replaced them with large velcro pads.
Yes, not only are they cheap... I mean inexpensive but they are now so much easier to remove 2 or 3 weeks from now when they won't be needed.....
Over on the other wall, you can see another very popular product...... under the guiding hand of a very close friend, I have created a wide variety of the ever popular e-collars......
These are carefully made from heavy stock construction paper, in a wide variety of colors and I have gone the extra yard and attached shiney things with my beadazzler or on some, hersey kisses with my hot glue gun ( you're surprized at how much they look like pointy things on those collars huh? )
Pick one of those collars out and I will personally take a picture of it and then email it to you...... you then can make as many copies of it as needed to send to all of those you may have "under consideration" but please remember.... in a couple of weeks, when any one of them is no longer needed.... please shred that copy of it and place it in a recycling bin.... it's the "green way" to go....... |
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I seem to be scratching my head all too often these days ( and no.. I checked, it's not fleas or dandruff )...... all too often I check out a "Doms" profile and they have nothing listed or the bare minimum of "looking for the right submissive woman." Do they really believe that the "right" woman is going to send out dozens of emails to them and those like them..... asking what it is that they need in a submissive and who they are as a Dominant?
A few notes to make while you read this......
1. I certainly could save myself a LOT of time by posting my pic on my profile...... I didn't and don't expect me to send one on your first email "demand."
2. If all you can say about yourself and your dominance is that "I am strict but fair"... I will once again be left wondering if you are in fact my old 10th grade English teacher, as I hand in my first paper to be graded that semester.
3. I've always wondered......how rich could I be if I owned a fleet of "BDSM buses" equipped to cruise the streets while you "discreetly beat or get beaten" on your lunch hour or during the time you are supposed to off "running a few errands? " Think of the possibilities of suspension bondage while the bus leans into a tight corner of a city street.......
4. If you have found that all you've needed as a Dominant in 10+ years is to make up endless lists of chores for your submissive to do exactly and to pick out what she will wear each day...... thank you for viewing my profile and I will save you the time..... next profile please CM.... I am not the submissive to "crave" that journey in a creative wasteland.
5. I am not a brat, sam or "discreet bedroom sub"... the very fact that I wish to try to know who you are by asking you questions is just because I'm a smart woman who doesn't run after the first ( or second or even the third..... ) person who claims they are Dominant. Move along to the doormat sale at walmart or blow-up slaves r us.
6. Take a look around men..... how many of you demand to be attracted to a petite or proportional submissive.... and when I do see a pic posted, there are far too many who should be in the gym themselves....... it's not even the "looks" guys..... I would be a bit nervous that I may end up hanging on the wall while they are having a mild heartattack on the dungeon floor. ( just think.... an extension of "Gerald's Game" with a tad more embarressment? )
7. I do know a few more things........ I tend to be a bit wary when the bondage chair in his dungeon is the truck seat from a 72 Chevy pick-up..... the spreader bar is the axel from that same truck and yes...... "walmart is closing in fifteen minutes!" is not and never has been a good safeword..... |
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| Age: 29 |
| Roseville,
California |
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