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| I'm a submissive male from Central London and I'm eager to talk to any and all who'd like to chat about anything and everything.
I love BDSM and am a budding masochist and I'm -very- willing to experience as many aspects of the lifestyle as I can!
I love bondage and being restrained and controlled, it is easily my greatest passion within the world of kink. Nothing feels quite as liberating and secure as being extremely tightly bound, blindfolded and gagged, and having no choice but to lie in the arms of your binder.
I have some experience in the lifestyle, but I'll most likely be willing to try just about anything, some things that I've had a taste of and am very eager to experience again are: Mummification, breath-play, pet-play, long-term bondage (or any bondage for that matter) and submission, gags, and more.
I'm against the idea of tributes; BDSM for me is a lifestyle, a collection of passionate activities done for mutual enjoyment and pleasure, I will not treat it as a business, just as I wouldn't treat a tradtional relationship as a business.
Like a lot of people here I'm a pretty geeky person, gaming of all sorts (from the electronic to the tabletop), I love fantasy and sci fi books and films and I spend a lot of time painting. I also love ice hockey (Go Detroit!) and Formula 1.
I do currently have an Owner who lives in Canada, however our relationship is a polyamorous one and I've been encouraged, and am eager, to get to know and meet, with as many people as I can connect with. We are eager to expand our family as well, so I appreciate all messages.
I'm a slim, young looking guy, but I like to think that I'm rather agile and flexible, and I'd love to experiment with some tight/challenging binds. I've recently moved to Perth and know no one in the scene here, I'm looking for anyone I can get in touch with who can help me ease in to the local scene.
I would really really love to talk to anyone, I'm on this site to meet like minded people, learn things, experience things, I'm an easy going and open minded person for the most part, so please, send me a message!
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My owners have gone to visit one another for a week.
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Are there actually any Dommes on this site not looking for a money slave or tribute?
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Now, I know I'm fairly new to this site, and that I've barely even skimmed the surface of the amount of people out there, but out of the half-dozen or so people I've contacted, I've so far only had two that were pleasant, and one that has lead to actually having a conversation with that contact.
I understand that this is a site for dominant and submissive people to find the sorts of people they're looking for, and is the perfect environment for people to finally open up about things that they've previously kept hidden to the rest of the world, but theres one or two things that've made my, so far short, usage of this site, not a very pleasant one.
Contacting people and not getting a reply is fine, absolutely dandy. The whole point in doing this over the internet and not in person, means that you can just ignore people you don't want to talk to. Lets face it, there are some strange people out there that the majority of us would like to avoid. What this doesn't let you do, is be a complete dick with impunity.
There is a -clear- difference between being a Dom, and just being an insulting arse. Some people don't seem to understand this. Just because you want to have slaves of your own, doesn't mean you're free to treat -everyone- that way.
Whilst this community is built on one party being dominated by the other, and sometimes in a way that would seem involuntary and forced, but that is the attraction of the fetish. Just because we crave the feeling of being owned/dominated/abused to an extent, it doesn't mean that it actually is a forceful thing. If the submissive person is uncomfortable with the situation, the current action should be ceased immediately.
The foundations upon which these actions and activities are based, are trust and acceptance. A sub would never, or should never, let someone they don't trust, do something they're not comfortable with, and that includes being shouted at, and ordered around by some random person out there, who feels that they are entitled to boss every person out there that has flagged themselves as submissive.
As a disclaimer, I'm not saying that -everyone- shares my views, and I believe that everyone is free to go about their lives in any way they like, so long as it doesn't impede upon anyone else's rights and/or feelings.
Yes, we submissive people like to be dominated. Yes, we are people. No, it doesn't mean that we'll willing submit to any bad-mouthed, crop-wielding wannabe master or mistress.
Remember, we are people too, and need to trust the person we're talking to, to let them have such control over our lives. Don't think that by appealing to my fetish, you can just treat me like the slime you wish I was.
Peace out people, stay cool.
Sam.
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| Age: 37 |
| SD !,
California |
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