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Hetero Female Dominant, 50,  Homewood, Florida
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Note To my good fortune, I found a partner. And its actually working because it is not based on a fetish!!!


Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own. Robert Heinlein, Stranger in a Strange Land

I am an inherently Dominant, sincere,nurturing(even maternal),take chargein charge, intelligent (educated professional) Woman who seeks a smart (the more intelligent you are, the more attractive you are), sublimely submissive male who is a viable romantic match for a loving monogamousFemale Led Relationship (FLR) replete with passion,domestic discipline (punitive spanking, corner time), excitement as well as intellectualspiritualphysical synergy.

As I am dead serious in my quest, I am open to relocation because I realize how difficult it is to find what I seek. My lack of personalbaggage and in-demand skillsets afford me the convenience of being portable and easily relocatable should I find the right man. I am savvy enough to realize that thelikelihood of finding the man I seek in my backyard is slim to none.

On a more personal note, I am a quintessential East Coaster (my roots originate in NJ and NC via WI) in that I am direct, straightforward, down to earthand non-passive-aggressive without exception.

For the sake of clarification, cuckolding, extreme hardcore kink and rampant promiscuity are out of scope for me. For my purposes, I am amenable only to a LTR in which our shared activities are safe, sane, consensual and sensual. Moreover, I am only interested in straight men. As I do not practice comparative morality (I am not a moral compass), I do not judge those whose likesdislikessoft and hard limits differ from mine. I firmly believe that what two consensual adults do is a personal, private matter.Suffice it to say, the world would be a better place if more people minded their own business.

Best case scenario, I seek a FLR that is a mutually beneficial partnershipin which the emotional and physical needs of both the Dommesub are considered and met because they are agreed upon up front. Perhaps, the beauty of FLR is the explicit negotiation process in the which the Ds discuss and negotiate the terms of their relationship (tacitly understood that the Domme has ultimate decision making authority).

No doubt men who desire and thrive in a FLR are innately submissive pleasers who are amenable to the landscape of a FLR in and outside of the bedroom. They are not situational subs or mere sexual fetishists.

Seemingly so, it appearsthat the Domme mustget to know the psyche and emotionalsexual needs of the submissive male(better than he knows himself) so she can craft the FLR strategically to their mutual betterment. An effective and efficient Domme encourages and inspiresher sub partnerembrace his submissiveness to the extent of becoming submissive proud.

Epilogue In a loving FLR, both the Ds take great care to give great care to one another because they do care deeply for one another!

My sincere hope is to find someone who can love me as much as I can love him!

Does it get any better than this?










 Dominant Female








 Lives For:

 You worshiping my body

 You worshiping my breasts


 Art Galleries




 Musical Theater

 Renaissance Faires



 You massaging me

 Massage (Giving)

 Spanking you


 Intellectual Discourse




 Amusement Parks


 Coffee Shops

 Fine Dining







 Horseback Riding


 Blindfolding you

 Keeping you permanently locked in tamper evident chastity

 Collaring you

 Giving you corner time facing the wall

 You kissing my feet

 Training you to be completely
obedient to me and only me

 Complete control of your orgasms

 You servicing me with your mouth

 Role Playing




 Bar Hopping

 Curious About:

 Antique Shows

 Bird Watching

 Going to the Opera



 Martial Arts

 Scuba Diving

 Wind Surfing


 Erotic Hypnosis


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Journal Entries:
8/16/2015 12:16:02 AM

Recently I have had several inquiries relative to my viewpoint concerning Female Supremacy.

Here goes:

Female Supremacy is an utter fallacy put forth by opportunistic, narcissistic charlatans and quacks seeking to use/exploit desperate submissive men to get their own way.  As far as I am concerned, any so-called Dominant woman who has to resort to this bunk is at best - a wannabe.  In all likelihood, she could not manage her way out of a paper bag - let alone possess the intelligence/emotional maturity/empathy to craft and lead a relationship that is mutually beneficial to both.

End of the day, why would anyone enter into and stay in a relationship if some (preferably many) of one's needs is not met?  Yes, both the emotional and sexual needs/wants/desires of the Dominant and submissive matter equally! I can only imagine that I would start a flame war had I posted this in the forums.  

Getting back to the subject at hand the veracity (or lack thereof) of Female Supremacy:

Everyone is equal in terms of certain inalienable civil rights.  The delineating difference is that not everyone is equal in terms of ability.  Certain individuals possess superior abilities (i.e. athletic prowess, musical talent, etc.).  Extraordinary ability/talent is a function of being an unique, sentient individual - not gender and/or ethnicity, culture, etc.

8/7/2015 1:37:21 PM
A friend on here sent met this.  I love it!

How does Moses make his tea? Hebrews it. Venison for dinner again? Oh deer! A cartoonist was found dead in his home. Details are sketchy.
I used to be a banker, but then I lost interest. Haunted French pancakes give me the crepes. England has no kidney bank, but it does have a Liverpool . I tried to catch some fog, but I mist.
They told me I had type-A blood, but it was a Type-O. I changed my iPod's name to Titanic. It's syncing now. Jokes about German sausages are the wurst. I know a guy who's addicted to brake fluid, but he says he can stop any time. I stayed up all night to see where the sun went, and then it dawned on me.
This girl said she recognized me from the vegetarian club, but I'd never met herbivore. When chemists die, apparently they barium. I'm reading a book about anti-gravity. I just can't put it down. I did a theatrical performance about puns. It was a play on words. I didn't like my beard at first. Then it grew on me.
Did you hear about the cross-eyed teacher who lost her job because she couldn't control her pupils? When you get a bladder infection you know urine trouble. Broken pencils are pretty much pointless. What do you call a dinosaur with an extensive vocabulary? A thesaurus.
I dropped out of the Communism class because of lousy Marx. All the toilets in New York 's police stations have been stolen. As of now, it appears the police have nothing to go on. I got a job at a bakery because I kneaded dough.
Velcro - what a rip off !

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