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Hetero Male Dominant, 53,  Melbourne, Australia
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SatyricTim - photo 1
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Last Online:


 Dominant Male



 5' 10"

 126 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Transgender

Submissive Female

Switch Women

 Lives For:



 Art Galleries

 Coffee Shops

 Fine Dining




 Anal Play






 Obedience Training



 Wax play


Pleasure comes with pain.Experience complements knowledge.Trust comes with understanding.Dominance complements submission.Power comes with responsibility.Men come with a penis. )

Online Im happy to talk and make friends.

My BDSM is real and personal.

I enjoy being physically active. I take care of myself. Im financially secure. I enjoy blathering cheerfully to anyone who will listen. I can be immensely stubborn. I am far too fond of good food and great sex. Sometimes I want to chill out in a cabin in the mountains and not see another person for a week.

I have my own limits. I wont do anything that would reasonably lead to legal problems. I wont do anything that would reasonably lead to medical problems. These are all quite fuzzy around the boundaries. So I will enthusiastically discuss ideas and seek willing consent for shared ventures.

What am I seeking? Above all else, dignity and ethics. People to engage with in conversation and activities, kinky and mainstream. A lover or more to share intimacy with mutual care and enjoyment.

All that being well, I am a primal sadistic pervert. A goofy weirdo. A sometimes sad and confused individual. Still, I do my best and enjoy it.

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Journal Entries:
2/3/2016 3:17:00 AM
SatyricTim is a weird, hedonistic, primal, sapiosexual, dominant, sadistic, perverted, curious, polyamorous, smoochy, cuddle-fucker. ** Conditions may apply....

2/1/2016 5:29:48 PM
Curiosity got me this morning.  The results seem reasonable, although not particularly meaningful.

== Results from ==
98% Dominant
96% Sadist
96% Primal (Hunter)
93% Rigger
93% Non-monogamist
90% Master/Mistress
86% Owner
72% Brat Tamer
71% Degrader
65% Experimentalist
53% Daddy/Mommy
36% Voyeur
25% Ageplayer
22% Exhibitionist
13% Masochist
12% Vanilla
11% Switch
3% Primal (Prey)
2% Submissive
2% Rope Bunny
2% Brat
2% Pet
1% Degradee
0% Slave
0% Girl/Boy
See my results online at

8/14/2010 8:32:06 PM

I've been pondering things again. What is it that works, and what works at different stages of a relationship with a play partner or lover. Years ago I heard D/s broken down into body/mind/heart/soul. But what does that all really mean?

Very early in playing with someone. I might offer a shoulder massage. Talking to them as things proceed. Fingertips gently rubbing up the back of the neck.

"Would you like me to pull your hair?"

"Yes please."

And then a minute later they've stopped listening to what I am saying, and have that silly smile on their face. No decision, no action. They have submitted to the act.

Later on, I might ask them to fetch me a drink.

"If you want to talk to me about taking things further, when you return you will kneel and present the drink to me respectfully."

Now the idea of deliberate submission has been planted. but it is very much optional. They can tell me to get my own damn drink. They can get a drink and hand it to me. Or they can kneel and present it. In the desired outcome, they have made a concious decision to submit to the instruction.

Surely that's it. There's your submission. We're all set, right? And it comes time for us to go our separate ways.

"I have had a great time. I'll talk to you tomorrow."

But almost out of the blue, they hold my eye for a moment, before dropping their gaze. Their body language is focussed. And they kneel, without instruction, without discussion.

"It has been my pleasure to serve, Sir."

And this is something new. There was no expectation. But clearly it is an act of submission. But not to an act, not to an instruction. This expression is a submission to the person.

And then I walk my way, free of distractions, free of expectations. And still I AM a dominant. This is a state of identity. Of being.

So that's my little fiction to explore the stages of dominating body, mind, heart, and soul. It's there for the ideas, not the events. But I enjoyed presenting it in this format.

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