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Please read my entire profile before contacting me. Trust me if you don't have time to read this we aren't going to work out anyway.
Now that I have a better idea of what it is I'm after, time to update the old profile. As a Dominant I'm finding I'm much more of a sensualist than a sadist (although I definitely have a sadistic streak) A few of my favorite things are pegging, edging, blindfolds, and chastity devices. Im still exploring and expanding but that list constitutes my favorites so far.
I prefer a boy who doesnt mind doing some housework while attend to other things because it frees up time for me to play with out adding stress to my life. I have a sub that I dont get to see very often and one that I see more regularly but unfortunately his life and work will soon be taking him out of state.
I love to play and I try to do it frequently but I, unfortunately, do lose interest quickly if there isn't enough activity, I don't know if that is a flaw but it is a fact. It is important that you are honest with yourself and me about your schedule.

Here are some things I am not. 1] cold ice princess. Nope, I like to laugh and have fun. Can I go cold? yep I sure can but I assure you you will not find that side of me enjoyable. 2] your second chance at that Domme you fucked things up with when you were younger. I'm not going to dress like her act like her or try to be her. If you want her go find her and beg her to take you back. 3]a pro or wealthy. I live in a one bedroom apartment with my little one I don't have a gaggle of Dommes to lend you to or team up on you with. Just a normal person and also human thus susceptible to error especially as I venture into this new chapter in my life. 4] Into humiliation for the sake of humiliation. If your looking for some one to call you names and and 'degrade' you with contrived situations. Keep looking. I don't do role playing and I want nothing to do with someone I don't respect. I'm not going to act for you because acting feels ridiculous to me.

Here's a little more about what I'm looking for 1] you are experienced. I'm new to being on the giving end and I need some one I can trust to signal me by safeword when things are going too far. Seriously don't make me afraid to hit anyone because you allowed me to hospitalize you. 2] you are employed or otherwise occupied. I'm kept pretty busy raising a young boy you ought to have something to occupy your time as well, also you need to have stability in your shelter and transportation. 3]you are intelligent. You don't have to be a genius but please have some interests other than alcohol, sports, and tits 4] you are single. Maybe you have a sexual partner or something like that but I am not interested in anyone who is in a romantic relationship I don't care if it is an open relationship. That goes double for married men.
5] You are available to come to my place at night. I'm not coming to you, you will be coming here and then leaving again after. You cant sleep over I have a young child. 6] you have a clean bill of health. I'm extra super duper serious. get tested, get your results on paper and give them to me I'll not touch you until you do. 7] you smell good. this means you've had a shower and you're wearing clean clothes. you don't have a tooth rotting in your head that makes your breath stink, you don't have any weird health problems that make you stink either. I'm serious, if I meet you and you have an obvious problem that I can smell I'm just gonna get up an leave. the end. 8]you are local. this should go with out saying at this point but I don't want an online relationship of any sort. similarly I don't really want anyone so close that I will have to share a grocery market with him even if things don't work out. I like clean breaks if there has to be a break.
What I don't want

1] piggy banks. no thank you financial domination is boring. I am not a prostitute any mention of paying me for anything means an immediate block and no possibility of meeting. If we get along we *may* jointly acquire toys or you may purchase things to leave with me that you enjoy playing with but depending of how intimate the item it will be disposed of or sent home with you in the event that we choose to go our separate ways. 2] Clingy ultra needy boys. I have a disabled son, don't try to compete with him. If you do you will lose. 3] Brats. don't try to annoy me on purpose. I'm pretty even tempered, I don't get angry often or easily. The moment something becomes stressful in anyway I eradicate it as quickly as possible. Don't become stressful. 4] Topping from the bottom. I was a submissive for most of my adult life. I'm very aware of it and it annoys the shit out of me. Just don't.

5] Disappearing boys. If I don't hear from a boy in a week I've already started dumping him in my head. after another week I've probably thrown his toys away. Ive had several boys vanish and attempt to return. If you want some one who will take you back after a long absence find a pro domme or fin domme. The exchange of currency saves you from being a waste of her time.

The rules

1] we will meet for a normal mundane date, coffee or breakfast or something of that sort during the school day when I'm available and free to go out without my little boy. The purpose of this it to make sure you can hold a decent conversation, I don't find you creepy and I feel good chemistry with you. I will also insist upon seeing and making note of your government issued identification. I'm somewhat creeped out by the thought of being alone with some one with out being sure of their actual first and last name. 2] you will be tested and I will have seen your test results before anything sexual on any level occurs between us. Again, I'm serious. Get tested for everything. I have seen paperwork for every single person I've been intimate with since my divorce. You aren't cute enough to be the exception. 3] Don't bring drama to my life. Have your shit together, pay your bills, don't have a crazy ex who is about to get out of jail, don't have a psychotic baby momma following you around, don't have bouts of suicidal depression, don't have constant emotional turmoil. High emotion people are draining and frankly boring. If you can't moderate your emotional response don't bother me. 4] Don't show up early or unannounced. I don't like having new people hanging around my son so if we have plans to get together at nine do not show up at eight thirty because it will piss me off. If we don't have plans at all I don't want to see you unless you contact me and get permission first.

5] Bring your own toys. I don't use penetrative toys on more than one boy because I think it's gross. I don't want to have to invest in a boy who may or may not disappoint me.

Finally:
If you are going to message me, please make sure you have a completed profile with some indication as to your interests or your message is detailed enough to give me some idea as to whether or not we are compatible otherwise don't expect a reply.

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12/28/2017 1:36:38 AM
My ginger boy will have to go move to a different state soon I'm going to miss him so much. :( I'll just have to fuck him as often as possible and make him make all those cute little noises as much as I can before he goes.

12/12/2017 2:12:40 AM
Toxic vs kinky https://youtu.be/dIOyyqqxPA8

7/23/2017 9:26:06 AM
Abuse in BDSM and D/s Financial abuse. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7jTSf-44s0s&feature=youtu.be

7/15/2017 9:55:08 AM
https://youtu.be/GdD8y8Rj2EA

6/30/2017 9:47:47 PM
Hey guys you know how annoying it is when you message a woman and you find out that she expects money from you or she wants you to go and sign up for some website. Well it's equally annoying when you message me from across the country and try to finagle a sexual conversation out of it. Go watch some porn if you need stroke material I am not a domination vending machine. Kthanxbai.

6/22/2017 2:27:13 PM
One sub is off visiting family the other is ill. I am so fucking bored.

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DeMoNsBlOoD22
 
 Age: 34
 Santa Clarita, California