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I have spent the last 15 years in a long term monogamous mostly vanilla relationship. If you have a difficult time with science, equality, honesty or empathy, we are probably not going to click. For those interested, Im an INFP and a subby switch. I love to be submissive in the bedroom, but maybe 70 to 85 of the time. I also love tying someone up and worshipping them with whatever drives them crazy. Im a pleaser at heart. Im not looking for 247 power exchanges or slave status or humiliation. I want a friend to share my life with that also has the drive and desire to be kinky when were alone. I love a strong, powerful, sensual woman that knows what she wants and has a varied appetite of what that is. I love creativity in all aspects of my life.
I am a bit of a dreamer, definitely a geek, a beginner gardener and chicken wrangler, artist, writer, slightly malcontent with the status quo, a veritable fountain of useless knowledge, loves giving and receiving affection both verbal and physical, usually mildly sleep deprived, connoisseur of all manner of entertainment, a semi decent cook and a mostly disastrous baker. I love keeping up with scientific advances in a lot of different fields. Every day I an becoming more and more the radical left trump tries to scare people with.
I want to share my time with someone who is affectionate, caring, fun, intelligent, obviously kinky with a high sex drive, but is laid back outside of the bedroom. That knows relationships go both ways and theyre willing to meet me at the half mark. That understands all s of magic take effort. Someone who can talk philosophy and morality and religion and politics. You know, all of those things we are not supposed to talk about at dinner.
At the rate were going, this might become an ad for a partner for the end of the world. Seriously hoping thats hyperbole. But if not, I hope everyone wears leather in the apocalypse.
People think Im funny, though my humor ranges. Im a bit jaded regarding human nature. I am both fascinated and repulsed by politics. I find all religions interesting, though I personally cant vouch for any of them. Sarcasm isnt foreign on my tongue.
I love nature, but a lot of my hobbies and passions make me a bit of homebody. I love to travel, but logistically thats not always easy these days even without the pandemic. Mark that as a goal for the future. I want to see the world. Ive seen some of Asia and a lot of America, but Id love to see Europe.
Im not an alpha male. Im more of an omega point. I can be dominant in the right situations, but honestly Im too laid back and disenfranchised to put that much energy into trying to prove I have testicles. Id rather be judged on the size of my compassion and intellect and wisdom. Though I think all of my sizes have been found to be enjoyable. I tend to be quiet and reserved to most people and talk deeply for hours with those I enjoy.
The soundtrack of my life is pretty eclectic and I really enjoy going down the music rabbit hole some nights and discovering new bands and songs. Music or NPR is a constant.
Well... so thats a very rough summary about me. How do you distill a life in a minute? Hoping theres someone who can be both strong and soft out there.
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