Please read this first before emailing me if you agree with my terms then please feel free to email and I will respond in kind.

I am a submissive woman looking for an experienced Dom.

Right now I am only looking to meet online. I need to form a bond and a level of trust before I can meet anyone in R/L. That may be a week or it could be several weeks. If you pressure me to meet, or ask me continuously when we will meet. I will end the relationship and cut ties. I will not be pressured into meeting before I am truly ready.

I will do this in steps. Email, chat, photo, phone, web-cam, and eventual R/L meeting.

I will be completely honest and open with you on all aspects of my life but I am a private person and do not wish to make this part of my life public. I work in a professional setting and interact with people all over the state. I do have body art that is unique and can be easily recognizable to those that know me. For that reason I will not post a photo of myself on this site.

I will tell you that I am 5'3 ½" tall, long straight auburn hair, hazel eyes, tons of freckles. I am overweight but I am currently working on losing much of it, though I will never be a size 2.

I am bi-sexual and currently in a sexless relationship with a woman that is not part of this scene. She is as vanilla as a bi-sexual can get.

I have not been actively in this lifestyle since 2001 when I chose to go with my current partner. I miss it and can not deny that side of my sexuality any longer.

I have had only 3 Doms: a wannabe Dom, a playful Dom, and a Dom that I can truly say was a Master at his craft that took me under his wing and began my true education on what it means to submit to another.

I know now that I should never have left him and I am a fool for doing so. I hope I can find another Master Dom, that can mix control with compassion as he did and continue my education.