The person I am looking for is a female between the ages of 35 and 55 who is looking for a change in the direction of her life. She has an unfulfilled inner need to serve to submit, to allow another to take control of her life, finances, worries, activities, and education. She is tired of assuming all of the responsibilities which everyday life has put upon her shoulders. She finds joy in serving and making others happy. She has an inner delight in seeing the smile on someones face, someone who is in control or superior to her, when she knows she has pleased them and lived up to their expectations for her. She cares more for the happiness of others than herself, knowing that fulfilling their wishes will bring her ultimate joy. She would answer 8 or better when asked to rate her degree of submission on a scale of 1-10.

This desire to serve, to please, to give up control extends beyond her day-to-day life to her sexual life as well. She wants someone else to be in control and make all of the decisions regarding this part of her life as well. She realizes that she will not always please and secretly relishes the thought of correction or discipline, knowing that it will always be given in affection and never permanently harmful.

She also harbors many thoughts, some of which she has denied even to herself, about the darker and less socially acceptable side of intimacy. She may become excited by the thought if humiliation or embarrassment. She may dream of being kept in a cage or bound. She may have a fascination with role-play. She has a very active imagination but has shut out these thoughts, except perhaps in private moments, because she has not thought that fulfillment in a normal relationship was possible and was ashamed to even suggest them to her partner..

I am fun, not weird, who to the outside world is normal and successful. I am easy to talk to and approach, well read, literate and thoughtful. Most importantly you will always be safe in my care. Stunning good looks are not my requirement

I want someone who will surrender control of her life.

If this describes you, this is a once in opportunity to realize your dreams.

Now for the fine print. I am not interested in men, men posing as women, anyone under 18 , pay sites, people who want to spend the day cybering, people who start off asking tell me what a day will be like, anyone who is not D/D free, people who are morbidly obese, or the belligerent. I am real and looking for someone real as well. Please do not try to waste my time, I will not cyber with you, or engage in months of email trading erotic scenes.

I am Sir to you and want only one woman to belong to me. I will send pictures to a serious respondent.