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CajunSweetie
Here for like-minded people. " '...the fact is,' said the other voice, 'that if you do tie her up, or whip her a little, and if she begins to like it-- then that's no good either. We've got to move beyond the pleasure stage. We must make the tears flow.' " -Pauline Réage, The Story of O I've been leaning towards the Daddy type for quite some time. I know my baby girl is out there somewhere. I'm a bit of a sadist... But there's something about being able to give a certain look and evoking a desired response in a woman; either from a look of love, lust or displeasure IF you want a photo of me, you have to ask nicely. I have a long list of fetishes and turn-ons. You can read some of them below (please feel free to let me know which ones turn YOU on!) but my favorites are: rope bondage, spanking, and orgasm control. (Who wants to cum on command?) Philosophy: I feel BDSM centers around three main principles: Control, Pain, and Humiliation. (There may be more but I haven't taken the time to identify them. Feel free to message me for a discussion if you have a different opinion.) Most fetishes fall under those three principles and sometimes more than one. I believe submission is a gift. A Master has no slave if the slave does not wish to give their servitude (unless it's taken by force which isn't a relationship.) Likewise, the Dominant chooses the submissive to control and command. The submissive servers their Master. In turn, the Dominant cares for and nurtures their submissive. As a Dominant, I'm not fooling myself into thinking I'm so badass my subs will obey me simply because. There's honor in being given control over another person and it's a gigantic responsibility I see many Dominants (and submissives!) take too lightly. D/s is a ying-yang of give and take, pull and push. Both parties involved are equal with different roles. One is satisfied from control and the other from being controlled; a symbiosis. They need each other to survive. I love the mental aspect of BDSM as much as I love the physical aspect. The most important sex organ we have is our brain. When I control your mind, I will have the rest of you. I prefer "funishments" over punishments -but I will punish you. Quotes "I will not harm you, but I will hurt you."
6/2/2012 8:17:12 PM
So you've noticed I don't keep a profile photo? If you want one, ask me for one. And don't forget to say please.
6/2/2012 8:15:56 PM
So you've noticed I don't keep a profile photo? If you want one, ask me for one. And don't forget to say please.
nidzlopez00
 
 Age: 28
 TEMA, Ghana