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Kitten86
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I am not afraid of the world, as it is still afraid of itself.
Our
world is still afraid of alternate sexualities, alternate definitions of
gender, and alternate forms of interpersonal relationships.
Why
should I let the fear of my peers run my life?
I am a lesbian.
I am genderqueer.
I am polyamorous.
I am a Security Guard.
I am a
friend.
I am a sister.
I am an artist.
I am a writer.
I am a gamer.
I
am so much that people describe,
and yet so much more than they can
describe.
Soy yo y nada más.
I am me and nothing more.
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Expect the Unexpected
I've been seeing a lovely lass the past month or so who has been incredible for me. Bear in mind this came out of the blue. I had a spur-of-the-moment date that turned into us spending the better part of the day in each other's company and not wanting to leave, and we've been dating since then.
That stated, I am in a relationship with someone who is also my bottom, and I am NOT looking for anything outside of friendship.
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So, yeah... That whole dating thing? Non-existent at this point.
However, there's someone who's caught my eye and lit a fire under my tail locally, so we'll see where that leads, ne?
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= Tiger's Ground Rules for Contact=
- I do not demand respect or use of a specific title right off the bat. I acknowledge that respect is earned and not demanded of anyone.
- Unless you have entered into a "formal" (and I use the term very loosely) BDSM relationship with me, I do not expect the use of a title with me. Until I hold a position that befits a title, I am your equal.
- I am NOT interested in any sort of relationship outside of friendship with men. Depending on how I am approached, you will receive either a very polite "please leave me alone" or a very boorish "fuck off and have a nice day". I have had to issue both of those in the past 24 hours.
- For the interest of general knowledge and honesty, I am currently dating someone. Because of that, while I am still learning and developing, I'm also limited in what I do. My involvement in BDSM has yet to come up for negotiation, though it will be shortly. This post/document will be updated accordingly with the boundaries agreed upon.
- If you see the need to contact me via Private Message, please do not include information such as your phone number or e-mail address in your first communication. To me, it screams of desperation and is a huge red flag.
- My Code of Ethics and Conduct encompasses the following Tenets: Honesty, Trust, Loyalty, Justice, Love, Honor. As such, to earn my Trust, Love, and Honor, you must prove to me through your actions that you are Honest, Loyal, and Just.
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Something I admit to not quite "getting" on here is how people don't read the entire profiles of the people they contact.
Take mine, for example. Not only does it say in my profile snapshot, but also in my profile description that I am a lesbian. However, I have received multiple messages from men who wish to submit to me. Flattering, certainly, but extremely far from anything I'd actually act on.
Just a musing. Eventually, I'll post my ground rules for contacting me, mostly for my own safety and sanity.
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