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| I am a modern woman. I have worked very hard as a single mother for many years to raise my children to be adults. They have their own lives and I finally have mine.
If you are a Married man, PLEASE do not contact me. I will not play with someone I am not involved with and I will not get involved with a married man. Thank you.
I call myself a submissive/switch.
I am submissive in the bedroom. I like to be submissive in play. I also like to switch it up sometimes and be the one to tie YOU up (just once in a great while).
Outside of the bedroom I am looking for a respectful, compatible, 50/50 relationship (LTR). That does not mean that all the work is shared. That means that each of us has skills and interests that we do together or apart. However, if we do it together, all the better.
Men and women are different, we each have pasts that made us what we are today. This, in turn, makes each of us unique and thus, our relationship will be unique and needs to be defined by us, not by some rules and protocol.
It means that we want each other to be happy. If you are good at one thing and I am not, you can do it, and vice versa. If we both like the same chores and/or activity, then we either share it or take turns doing it. If you enjoy one activity, and I don't, then while you do that, I will do something I enjoy, or I may do it with you at times and you do things with me at times. We will do this because it make the other one happy, not because we are told to do it.
Being submissive to someone, means more than just following all the rules. It means wanting to give to them and wanting to make them happy. BUT, as a woman of this day in 2015, it also means that I have opinions and feelings too.
It does not mean that you say "jump" and the I ask, "how high?"
Yes, there are times when I will totally submit and give everything to make you happy, but I want more than just some sexual satisfaction. I want you to give to me sometimes for the same reasons. I want my man to WANT to make me happy too.
This is why I call my self a submissive/switch (I can't find another term that works well enough).
I may serve you most of the time, but then, sometimes, I need to know that you want to serve me and my happiness too. There are times when I need to be held and comforted like a "BabyGirl". I love to just sit together on the sofa and kiss and cuddle for an entire movie.
I am an intelligent, educated woman. I have brought myself through many hardships alone. I have learned a lot and lived a lot. Just like you, I have feelings and needs (emotional, along with sexual and sensual).
I will not go back to a 50's household and live like a servant/mouse caught in a trap. I have a brain and I like to use it. I have experienced many things and learned how to do many things in my life. I will not suppress these things just to make you happy and be your servant.
I am a woman, but I am a very strong woman.
If you have read this far, and still are not saying, "This bitch is crazy!"
Then write back... I will be here to answer you.
Accept me as me! Or pass me by.
(I can get laid anywhere at any time, I want more than just that)
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I think it is really funny that I have all these "Admirers", yet I have only had three of them contact me. One I know personally (I won't say who). The rest of you, how can you admire someone you haven't even bothered to talk or write to? |
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