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Im an unusual woman in an unusual situation seeking something very specific.
I am married, in a loving and supportive, but platonic open relationship. I have children and share a house and finances with my platonic partner, so I do not seek any traditional escalator style relationships where well move in together, get married or have children.
Words which describe me include kind, giving, loving, empathic, intelligent, organised, motivated, loyal. But despite my external brightness, my internal desires are dark.
I am seeking a heart mate, not a casual relationship or FWB or play partner. I would like us to be well matched in many vanilla domains, as well as in our depravity.
Im looking for a committed and monogamous or monogamish but non live-in relationship with a person who is looking for the same. I would prefer someone with experience who is seeking a relationship with elements of power exchange or Ds. While Im not in the position to offer 247 or TPE, I would like to eventually find something that extends outside just the bedroom. I like pain, and service, and I hope to find someone who likes to give one and receive the other. I seek my counterpart, someone to be utterly devoted to, and to be cherished in return.
If you seek polyamorous arrangements in your profile, I will not reply. I have tried polyamory and know that it is not for me.
Age is not a huge consideration for me but you must be absolutely 100 percent decided on no (more) children to date me. I will not consider anyone who has not yet made up their mind about this, primarily because children are awesome, but I dont want more, and I dont wish to be the reason I keep you from meeting yours. For this reason, it is unlikely that I will date anyone under 40.
You must have a strong desire for BDSM to be part of your life. It does not have to be public, but it needs to be important or even essential to you. You must be comfortable with me doing some elements of non-sexual kink with others, in a public environment. You are welcome to ask what this means.
I am not seeking
To be a third for any couple
A discrete (sic) relationship - if you are attached your partner needs to know and consent
Casual anything
Online-only, long distance relationships, or to relocate (myself)
Polyamorous arrangements unless you are seeking your primary or anchor partner and are in a similar situation to me.
Relationship anarchists or solo polyamorists
Still reading?
I invite you to please message me.
Please keep in mind
I am an autonomous adult woman and although I identify as a submissive, you are a stranger to me, and we are equals. Please do not try to command me in your messages. I will laugh, possibly share with my friends, and block you.
I dislike un-negotiated ob.jectification of any kind, but fetishising my race will see you blocked immediately
I am seeking on multiple dating sites and would prefer to chat for a few days to determine chemistry and desire to meet, please dont contact me if youre not wanting to date me seriously. Im a very intelligent woman and am very sure of what I am seeking and not seeking. Lets not waste each others time.
I get a LOT of messages, and I know that I might be waiting a long time to find you. Please make your message to me awesome so I can recognise you more easily. X
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51 Experimentalist
42 Vanilla
37 Exhibitionist
37 Brat
16 Non-monogamist
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