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	Unlike Many People On This Site I Am A Real Person! http://youtu.be/OsQOeOXoqBE Howdy :D I am the submissive half of a M/s couple. I want more friends who I can be open about my lifestyle with without it seeming weird or like a novelty. I'm here mainly to search for cute girls to hang out with who enjoy cuddling and comics for friends with because I miss having close female friends. I am asexual, I am not looking for any sexual partners. Please don't bother messaging me if this is what you're after. I'm not here to find a dom, Dom, Daddy Dom, owner, Dominant, "Dominate", top, Master, Mistress, or any sort of TPE relationship or play partner. I'd prefer to be left alone by any man who refers to himself as "Daddy." It makes me crazy uncomfortable. I can accept that some people are into DD/lg stuff but I find it very triggering. --- What I'm Looking For Here... I kind of want to find a sisterly subbie lady friend. Probably someone around my age. I want someone I can have sleepover parties in my underwear with and stay up cuddling and watching cartoons and playing video games. I kinda like the idea of having more friends who are littles if only because I love a lot of childish things. I realize this is kind of a difficult thing to develop because friendship chemistry is (in my opinion) harder to develop than romantic chemistry but I noticed that with most my friends graduating college, getting married, having kids, all of these intimate friendships dissipated with time and distance and I miss having girls around who I can be giggly with and give eskimo kisses to and nap with and having someone to play dress up with. While this is my main quest I'm pretty sure I won't find it here. I'm open to talk and make friends with anyone who's not a disrespectful bonehead. I feel like I'm going to regret putting this out there, but I'm really curious about play piercing. I've had about 10 piercings and I love that feeling. This is something my Master isn't into which I can totally understand and wouldn't push him to do but I'm really into the idea of trying it with a friend I can trust who has experience. --- A Little About Me... A friend of mine from cently described me as being "from the sailor fuku school for wayward goth girls." and I felt that was a fairly accurate. I'm in a weird place in life where I'm recovering from PTSD and have adopted a habit of not caring as much about how the outside world perceives me if what I'm doing makes me happy. It's made me more open about things I like with people around me since I'd stopped telling people about how much I liked anime and comics and I quit playing RPGs because I thought I was too cool for school. It seems much easier to just let all of my weirdness out and accept any positive reactions and shake the haters off. I'm really into costuming and cosplay as well most DIY/crafting stuff. I grew up around burlesque and theater and Mummers and got involved with doing face painting, clowning, and sideshow around college. Dare I say, I kinda have a clown fetish. In a littlest of little ways I think of myself as a little. While that is not an aspect of my TPE relationship around people I'm comfortable with I'm openly very childish and a tad naive. I collect dolls, have tea parties, and get waaaay too exited about checking out the toy aisle. I'm a gloomy brooding cynical bastard but I'd like to think that at my chewy center I'm a 13 year old girl who wants to be Sailor Moon. --- What I'm into... I'm in a weird place sexually because well, I don't really care about sex. I have sex with my Master because it makes him happy but otherwise it just seems so weird. I don't understand why people enjoy such a thing. I was one of those girls who enjoyed hurting themselves long before they knew what a masochist is. While I happily lack those sad little teenage drama cut scars I have a lot of unsettled broken bones and odd scrapes and scars from strange experiments with compressed air. While the extreme is what makes my toes curl I love the BDSM staples of spanking and caning. I love hair pulling and choking. I feel like having controlled consensual experiments with pain and fear are important. We've spent years reaching to the top of the food chain, evolving all these senses, we have so many nerves and ways to feel and experience things. Fear and pain are so far removed from modern life. I love that primal feeling of lust and hurt and struggling and defeat all twisted into a single sensation. Oh, I'm also really into socks.

8/6/2013 5:43:09 PM

Is there a way to send people who list "local BDSM community" as a dislike/hate/hard limit to bulk mail? Or like.. To stop them from even seeing me?

5/28/2013 2:37:58 PM

SOME THINGS I DO NOT LIKE

(The less-fun list.)

Illiteracy.

I can understand a typo, we're all human but flat out ignoring grammar and spelling makes me cringe and wish I could bash your face in with a rock.

Boring Messages.

If you message me with just "Hi" or something like that I'm likely to just.. not respond or not really want to talk to you. If you message me with information I know immediately from your profile, like "Hi, I'm john5454, my name's john, I'm 25 male from PA" Well, I'm I'm not likely to really by that interesting. If you've bothered to read my profile then actually start a conversation. I read the profiles of people who message me and grant them the same respect.

Rudeness.

General rude behavior, ignoring limits I set in my profile or boundaries I set in conversation. Seems pretty obvious: Don't be a dick.

D/s Titles & Pet Names

I see giving anyone D/s titles when you are not in a D/s relationship with them as offensive. I do not know you and you do not know me I can not be your slave or your Domme. Do not call me ma'am, mistress, slave, or any range or derogatory expletives to display your domly-domliness. I will laugh at you.

Marvel.

DC all the way ;D

Foot Fetishists.

I don't have a foot fetish. No offense to people who do but YKINMK.

Cybering/Online Play/Asking For Contact Info

It does nothing for me. It seems silly. I mean, self bondage on it's own is painfully silly. I don't give out my skype or phone number unless I'm on super best friends terms with someone or they seem like someone I want to meet right away. Honestly you're probably better off waiting for me to ask you for yours than me giving you mine.

Men Who Have Female Profile Pictures

Pet peeve. When I check my "who's viewing me" list and I see a cute girl only to learn it's a 40 year old male Dom. Yuck! D: Stop breaking my heart this way, I want cute biddies!

5/27/2013 1:11:43 AM

Some Things I Like:

OTK Socks

I have a serious sock and stocking problem. I'm addicted to Sock Dreams. I love cute cozy sexy socks that fall just above the knee or go all the way up to my thighs. They make me feel super comfortable and safe :3

OTK spankings ;D

The Best kind of spanking, bring out all of those warm fuzzy subby feelings that only a warm slightly stingy bottom ban bring

Maid Uniforms

I'm a loser and I've become a little obsessed with meido play. I keep looking at cute cute cute maid costumes but I feel like I'd be a ridiculous weeaboo if I wore one. Being kawaii isn't very tough ;C

Toys
I collect Figmas and ThreeA toys. I'm spend a lot of time drooling over toys and trying not to buy them. I try to mostly get ones I wouldn't be too weirded out with displaying (Mostly Robots and mecha ATM, but I do have Guts from Berserk) But I want so many cute girlie ones and the fan servicey Queens Blade/Gate figures.

Toys (Of The Kinky Sort ;D)

My toy chest is ever growing. It's a combination of bondage gear (cuffs and what not) some basic percussian stuff, and well, I get really excited about glass stuff and fancy vibrators ;D At the moment my favorite piece is a wand I got for my birthday because it's purple and I don't think I could live without it.

Japanese Fashion

I'm a sucker for EGL. My favorite brands are Alice & the Pirates and Moi Meme Moitie. Things that are a little darker with lots of fun biblical and literary themes.

Leather, Latex, and Lingerie

I love erotic fashion and I also love the very gothic aesthetic that goes along with it. I also am obsessed with cute and frilly and fancy underwear. I rarely wear pants when I'm at home so I tend to only have visually interesting underwear. I think the kind of panties you wear says a lot about you, but I'm a panty fetishist so what do I know?

Evangelion.

Lately I've become obsessed with Eva. I've loved the series for years but I think with the Rebuild series and the constant release of new figures I'm just fangirling out all over the place.

Piercings <3

I've had 10 piercings, retired 2 of them. I'm always looking to get more. I love the whole process, it makes my toes curl thinking about it. This year I got my nipples done, I'm holding out a few more months to possibly get my labia and/or clitoral hood done.

Boots

I think I might always be the weird 16 year old goth girl I am at heart. Nothing makes my heart beat faster than spying a pair of lovely black boots. They can be feminine and vampy or 30-eyed steel toed combat boots but goddamn I love them.

5/26/2013 9:12:51 AM

I'm looking to get into latex fashion, any help/advice is appreciated! I really want to get an Evangelion plug suit but I have no experiance with latex so I'd love to talk to people before I drop $300 on a plugsuit and don't know how to take care of it.