Well hello.

I'm just a middle-aged man who is coming to terms with the freaky side of his being. I would guess there's a lot of that going around these days. Which is, perhaps, a good thing.

I've been lurking about for a while. I've concluded that the "D/S" label is monstrously broad, encompassing attitudes and behaviors which run the gambit from tame to downright scary. Where I reside in that continuum is still a matter of discovery and exploration.

What little experience I've had has shown me that I like to be submissive in the bedroom. This does not carry over in my "vanilla" life. I did have one occasion where I took control, leading a woman though a "confession and redemption" scene that, in her words, "shook her soul." But were I pick a label for myself, "bottom" would be it.

I'm single, relatively healthy, live on my own, and in general make my way through life without being a parasite, either directly or indirectly.

I am looking for women, around my age, who would enjoy meeting-up for friendship, good conversation and exploration.