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	I am not entirely sure the title "Dominant" really fits me. I am more likely to get up and get something for a person than to expect somebody to do that for me. So I guess I'm not really a Dominant. But I am looking for somewhat submissive women for some bondage play! A little struggling is good! Sensual bondage play is good, too. I give good shoulder, neck, and back rubs! I think I would like a play partner/ practice bunny. I am looking for friends, too. I am not particular as to body size or shape- I find all women, especially when bound, beautiful! I view bondage as its own art form and I have played with women of all sorts of shapes and sizes. Most of my experience has been with scarves or cuffs and chains! I have done a little rope work but I really don't have much skill or aptitude for it. I wouldn't be against practicing it more, though. A woman that enjoys a little tickling, pinching, poking, nibbling, spanking, or teasing is a big plus! I don't like inflicting pain, I don't like leaving marks. I really don't want to hurt anybody. But I do like provoking a little struggle. Gamer and geek girls are more than welcome! I am in the process of ending what's been a five year long-term relationship with my wife (and a ten year in total marriage). I still love her dearly, but it's time for me to move on and start looking out for myself for a change. Hopefully it won't take too long to make everything official. Hard limits include blood and any sort of toilet play. Feel free to ask any questions you might have. I can't promise I can give an answer, but I will certainly try! Also, please, be straight with me. I am an understanding person, but I don't like being used. I am not looking for vanilla sex, one-night hookups, or threesome sex. Vanilla sex is not of interest to me, I think I'm basically Asexual. I don't mind doing some manual stimulation or using a Hitachi on a woman, but that's as far as it goes for me. I'm definitely more an "energy exchange" type of player.

9/2/2013 5:35:43 PM

(This is the long profile I originally had up before trimming it down some on some sage advice from a friend!)

I find myself looking for a submissive woman to be kinky playmate! I like soft, sensual bondage primarily, but I also love the sound of jingling chains and the look of leather cuffs and mittens. I also love the look of women in spandex, lingerie (especially slips or nightgowns), and hose or stockings, as well as more mundane attire. I am a big fan of gags and love the sound of a gagged woman! I recently lost a lovely BBW sub that had been my playmate for a year or so, and I miss her terribly (though I am happy she's found "the one" for her)! I am very discrete and, of course, would hope that any future play-partner would, likewise, be so.

I am hoping to improve my skills and learn about the scene, since up until now, all of my activity had been private! I am always looking to learn new things! I think I would most like a female sub roughly in my age range (give or take a few years), with comparable experience that would like to learn along with me or perhaps one that would like to help teach me how to be a better dominant, but I wouldn't be at all put off by someone who has just begun their journey into kink! I want to work on my the composition of my bondage to create something beautiful. I would also like the opportunity to learn rigging skills.

I don't have any interest in being a sub (as far as I know!) but I know I like it when my sub struggles a little with me! The physical interplay is exciting to me.

I am not looking for vanilla sex, one-night hookups, or any variation on a threesome purely for sex.

I'm looking for someone that shares my passion for bondage and its sensual side and all that entails! I am also looking to network to find a possible play-partner and future sub! If you think that might be you, please feel free to message me!

Also: I am a gamer (tabletop RPG not so much video game, though I dabble), game designer, and amateur cartoonist/ comic book artist. I love to create, whether it be a game system, a game world, a picture, or bondage-as-art! A sub who is also a geek would be most excellent!

It should also be noted that I am married, currently in a long-distance relationship as my wife is caring for her ailing father 900 miles away, while I remain where my job is to provide us income. She is, sadly, not at all kinky, but she approves of my exploration of these interests. I love her very much.