Macedonian Man Cuts  Off His  Penis in an Irrational Act of Self-Mutilation

A young adult Macedonian man cut off his penis because his girlfriend told him that he was unable to satisfy her because his penis was not large enough.  Doctors surgically reattached it, but it will never work the same.  He should not have acted so brashly. All one needs is a 2.5 inch penis to satisfy a woman. In fact, some women have reported far more intense orgasms via oral sex than they do with vaginal sex, so the tongue and a 2.5 inch penis certainly can suffice with many women.   One certainly does not need 8-inches to satisfy a woman sexually. Unfortunately, the man succumbed to  irrational rage, which manifested itself in his own self-mutilation.

Cuckold Sex Can Either Supplement or Entirely  Replace Vaginal Sex Among Beta Males

Cuckoldry  is an aspect of human sexuality that has existed since time immemorial and has been fetishized by human sexual desire software.  Cuckoldry  is when another man has sex with your primary partner, often with the cuckolded man being deceived by the adulterous affair. However, cuckoldry has also been fetishized, manifesting itself  in a subculture where couples willingly allow an interloper, usually a dominant male with a large penis, often black, commonly referred to as a bull,  to have sex with the betrothed woman.  Such an arrangement can be quite sexually satisfying   for some small penis/beta men that have fetishized such a sexual interaction, as well as for the bull and the women, colloquially known as a hotwife.  According to the information presented in the book A Billion Wicked Thoughts, by Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam,  cuckold sex is second only to adult teens in pornography searches, demonstrating that cuckoldry is a fundamental aspect of human sexuality and related to sperm competition.

The modern phenomenon of cuckold sex can be explained by sperm competition.   Our species has had thousands of years of sperm competition, not to mention millions of years of it in the hominid line leading to our species,  which involves men competing with the viability of their sperm, as opposed to physical combat or intimidation, like that of gorillas,  to fertilize women’s eggs. It is the trait of sperm competition  which is responsible for the existence of such a fetish in modern society.  It is this  component of sperm competition that is a fundamental aspect of cuckoldry  that is responsible for inducing far more intense orgasms among  the adherents of the cuckold fetish than that  which  can be experienced  through  strict monogamous sexual relations.

Sexually Experienced Women and Virgins Might Have More in Common Than You Would Think

Men tend to categorize women as opposed to looking for continuity among them. This predilection for categorization is endemic to the way humans think and is known as the tyranny of discontinuity.  Categorization  certainly is necessary in our lives. You would not want a chef serving you poisonous mushrooms on your salad.  However, we should not lose sight of the continuity of mushrooms as well as all things in nature.   As far as women are concerned, we can place them in distinct categories, which a plethora of men do and which is propounded by scores of gurus in the dating industry. But at the same time we don’t want to lose site of the continuity among women and the patterns in their behaviour.  By not falling victim to the tyranny of discontinuity we will miss the crucial similarities that exist between seemingly different women that have been placed in unique categories. For example, in regards to the continuum of sexual disinterest and sexual receptivity  I don't think there was any difference between the Chinese virgin, that I once had over my apartment to watch movies and who was  unwilling to engage in sexual intercourse, and the Russian and Ukrainian women that I use to approach at the nightclubs and pool parties  in Guangzhou, who were also unwilling to engage in sexual intercourse with me, in terms of their Detective Agencies, for both were on red alert. In my opinion, all of the Russian and Ukrainian women in those clubs and pool parties  have given head and have had sex with multiple men, an assumption based on pure speculation on my part, I might add,  yet their Detective Agencies were on the same level of alertness and defensiveness in regards to their willingness to engage in sexual interaction when in the nightclubs as that of the Chinese virgin that I once had on my couch watching movies, despite the fact that the Chinese virgin knew me, liked me and had gone out on previous dates with me.  The difficulty in obtaining sex from both the Russian and Ukrainian women in the nightclubs and pool parties, despite their apparent sexual experience, would be just as difficult, if not more so, as it would be for me to get sex from the Chinese virgin, for the difficulty in negotiating the Detective Agency is the same. This is the continuity that could be discerned  between two seemingly disparate categories of women. 

Jump Ship When a Woman Turns Her Head Away

          
  I had immersed myself in a conversation with two Japanese girls at a pool party while two of their friends stood in front of us who were presently involved in the post-approach interactive phase with two Caucasian men that had just approached them.  During the conversation I had noticed that the Japanese girl was turning her head away from the guy that was talking to her.  I had humorously brought this topic up to the Japanese girl that I was talking to (She was cognizant of the fact that I write books and blogs on dating and sex) and she did notice the ostensible disinterest of her friend.  At that point the man, seemingly thinking he was comfortably ensconced in the post-interactive phase, should have bailed as if he were on the Titanic.  Negotiating the pitfalls of the post-interactive zone is where the real challenges in meeting women lie and if you think that you are out of the woods by being there you have  another thing coming.  The guy had as much chance of getting the Japanese  girl interested in him as he would of getting off the ropes with his hands down while Mike Tyson clobbered away at him.   What he should have done was immediately split by jumping into the pool, so as not to cock block his friend, though that would not have helped his friend out at all for the other Japanese girl in front of us was snubbing his friend as well.  It was a lost cause for the both of them. 

Incorporate Different Priming Techniques in Your Dating and Implement Them Simultaneously

            To get a woman erotically interested in you on a first date it is necessary to utilized various methods of priming and implement them simultaneously. Priming is basically a means of arousing a woman sexually--- and that does not mean that is going to have sex with you then and there. It could be later on in the night or on the next time you meet.  The point is that you need to do more than get a woman attracted to you on a first date, but rather you need to sexually arouse her through non-erotic verbal priming, erotic priming, and erotic verbal priming. First,  Non-erotic priming is simply the conversation that you engage in on the date that is not at all erotic in nature.  It can be small talk or it can gravitate to more complex subject matters, albeit don’t get too heavy with the intellectual topics. A date is not a phd seminar, but rather a means to get to know each other.  For example, you can tell her a little bit about what you like to do and have her elaborate on her likes and interests.  You can also up the ante by moving the conversation to some more substantial topics.  Latest news events in the world are viable options.  Small topic and discussions of  national and world affairs can only take you so far into getting her into bed. National commentators get women into bed with their status and money, not the topics that they so thoroughly understand and expatiate about. Commentators on Meet the Press on Sunday morning are not getting women banging downt their doors with their political commentary.  You should also incorporate the topic of sex, though you have to be careful in this realm, and it is at this point when erotic priming comes to the fore during the date.   It can backfire like a Chinese made pistol in that you can come off as a creep and pervert depending on the body language of the delivery, how frequently you discuss sex throughout the course of the date and how desperate for sex you come off as being. Erotic priming on a first date should really involve the discussion of sex that does not start off as too explicit and involves discussions of  sexual relationships about men and women and should incline towards a discussion about her sexual relationships and what she likes sexually. Finally, you there needs to be erotic physical priming, which is altogether different from the erotic physical priming that you use to arouse her before sex. You want to subtly  touch the non-erogenous zones of her body for short durations fairly frequently throughout the course of the date.  The key is to avoid touching her for long duration of time, like a horny adolescent does with a girl in a movie theater.  I gave a fairly basic and brief introduction of these techniques and now it is time to emphasize the importance of incorporating them simultaneously throughout the course of the date.   

  It is not a matter of performing these techniques one at a time. Instead, you need to perform them simultaneously. However, men--- most who are not at all aware of the specific nomenclature  used to described these methods-- too frequently  make the mistake of engaging in one technique at a time.  They start out with non-erotic verbal communication, which they spend an hour or two at.  They then move onto some erotic physical priming, often not done gradually.  And finally they throw some erotic verbal priming out on the table.  Such a faulty means of effectuating physical escalation on a date is analogous to a MMA fighter spending the first round just boxing, the second round throwing Muay Thai kicks and knees and then the final round engaging in takedowns and Brazilian Jujitsu. Just like a great MMA fighter puts all the fighting disciplines together simultaneously in his attack and defense a man adept in sexual seduction will put all methods of priming a woman together simultaneously.

Social Networking’s Relation to Infidelity is a Question of Which Came First, the Chicken or the Egg?

Social networking can be a pitfall for your relationship. Recently, evidence has indicated that social network use can predict negative outcomes such as infidelity and disintegrated relationships; specifically, arising over infidelity and conflict over social network use, contacting old partners and looking at social network friend’s profiles.  The question that arises is whether or not it is the conflict over social network use that causes people to go offline and seek other sexual partners or is the seeking of other sexual partners the goal from the start, with looking over social network profiles  a means to that end?  This is a question that is not easily answered. Regardless, social networks introduce a cornucopia of potential conflicts that would never have been there from the start if social networks did not exist or couples never signed onto them.  

Some Women Are Licensed PIs When it Comes to Partner Monitoring on Social Networks

When women are entranced by the neurochemical concoction of romantic love they spend more time searching their partner’s social network profiles, so as to find information about them that will confirm or deny their suspicions.  For example, I wrote a blog entry about the potential pitfalls of meeting someone online and she extrapolated the blog post to our relationship, completely illogical, being that the blog post simply stated that the pitfalls of online dating are statistical and cannot determine the outcomes of any individual couple, yet this concept had absolutely no bearing on her conclusions.  This partner monitoring, characteristic of the female’s Detective Agency, is especially augmented when individuals are prone to anxiety, having doubts about their current romantic attachment. 

After reading many profiles of dominant women on Collarme I have noticed that some

are hypocritical and narrow minded.   One profile of a domme that I looked over was somewhat perplexing on account of the fact that she mentioned that she was off put by a 40-year-old man masturbating to her photos. Is it because he is forty that he cannot express himself sexually in a free fashion, whereas a younger man can, say a 20-year-old, who would not disgust her. The forty-year old man is not harming anyone in the confines of his own home. Do we not, as practitioners of alternate sexual lifestyles, deem all sexuality to be normal and acceptable, so long as it is not harming anyone else. Second, she used the term pervert in derogatory fashion. Pervert has only recently been used to describe people who partake in what society refers to as abnormal sexuality and that for hundreds of years the term pervert was used to describe an atheist. I am sure there are myriads of people in the world who would deem her sexuality to be perverted? Who is to judge who is normal sexually and who is not? Is there a natural order that determines sexual normalcy. Third, she said that men are ifying women by masturbating to her pictures. Are not males wired by evolution to be aroused by the overt physiognomic signs of fertility in a reproductively viable female such as herself, i.e. large breasts, .7 hip-to-waist ratio, and symmetrical face? Are not male brains wired to release sperm in reproductively viable females, so as to propagate our species? Also, male sexuality is susceptible to imprinting at an early age to a wide variety of sexual stimuli, so masturbating to photos may be their specific way of arousing themselves that has taken the place of real time interaction. Again, they are partaking in such said activity in the confines of their own home and not harming anyone. And as far as the ification is concerned, studies in the laboratory indicate that focusing on the visceral aspects of one's sexual partner as opposed to the cognitive actually makes one more aware of the physical needs and pleasure of ones's partner as opposed to the cognitive areas of the brain which engage in more abstract thought that does not readily focus on the physical aspects of someone.

Fake dommes and slaves are a pressing problem on BDSM personals sites. First, Dominant Women are in somewhat of a precarious position in the formation of any BDSM liason, for if they reject a potential slave, for whatever reason and they certainly can afford to be picky considering the ratio of submissive men to dominant women, then the slave can then simply state that they are fake dommes and that the slaves are being rejected for the reason that the dommes never had any interest in meeting them from the start, for they are not interested in playing with any slaves, rather than the shortcomings of the slaves themselves. This situation is analgous to the education profession in which often students and parents will attribute the failure of the student to that of the teacher. It certainly is an easy out for someone who has demonstrated failure, not to mention that humans are wired to fail to recognize their own personal shortcomings; you could say it is a means of displacing the psychological trauma associated with failure on someone's part, otherwise they would have to endure the bitter truth of reality. In my opinion, I think most dommes on the internet are for real in the sense that they have a predilection to BDSM roleplay, especially the professional ones, and so do the submissive men, otherwise they would not be on the internet---- how many people from the traditional sociosexual arena without predilections for dominant and submissive roleplay would actually set up a profile on the internet? Many of them will not set up a regular profile let alone one on a BDSM website. The problem with forming liasons in the BDSM subculture, as it is any any social arena, is that each party wants to fulfill their own selfish interests and those selfish interests don't always tally up with the selfish interests of the other party. Basically, without running into a discussion on game theory, which would require me to write much more words then I am able to tonight, people in the BDSM subculture are falling into a Nash Equilibrium, along with everyone else, which basically is a situation in which no player can benefit by changing his strategy while the other player's strategy remains unchanged. For example, if two burglars are suspected of robbing a liquor store, even though the police don't have evidence against them, there is still a possibility to get a conviction, for all the police have to do is place the suspects into different rooms and tell them that if one suspect talks and the other doesn't then the one that doesn't talk will get ten years, whereas the one that talks will get five years.

The logical solution to the Prisoner's Dilemma is for neither suspect to talk, so neither suspect gets any jail time, but that solution could never be realized, unless the two suspects cooperate, of which they can't, for they are in two different rooms, so the best solution for each suspect would be to talk, and thus rendering each suspect a sentence of only five years. If one talks and the other one doesn't then the one that does not talk will get ten years. This is a classic Nash Equilibrium and, unfortunately, all of us in the BDSM scene are stuck in one.

Natasha

I was going to arouse her with perpetual titillating foreplay, tantalizing her until she would be begging me to stimulate her clitoris with my tongue.  After a few minutes of gentle kisses on her face and neck I began to kiss her lips ever so softly until I could discern that she was receptive to my tongue.  I French kissed her while my right hand was on the back of her neck, gently stroking her hair and massaging her neck muscles, while my other hand massaged her thighs, ass, and trunk.  She started to move her hips backwards and forwards.  She was making it ostensible, subconsciously, that she wanted vaginal stimulation.  I wasn’t going to satisfy her needs too rapidly, but rather I was going to put her in a rapturous state of titillation before finally penetrating her with my cock. 

            I started with her nipples, quite large and erect, and twirled them in my mouth, while  gently cupping her breasts.  Her breasts were not massive by any means, but firmly shaped and ever so succulent. I devoured them with the gustatory delight of a famished man at the Last Supper. She was moaning uncontrollably, but I would not give her any release. Instead, I inched my way down her naval and slowly moved my tongue towards her clitoris, engorged with blood and strewn with a chaotic surge of electrical impulses.    I lapped her pussy and asshole both at the same time, going up and down with my tongue, starting with her clitoris and then going all the way down to her asshole.  I did this repetitively for what seemed like a rapturous eternity.  I would make her cum in my mouth tonight with my oral attentions; an experience that would be etched into the annals of her numerous sexual experiences of which she could not possibly forget.  However, before I would let her cum I would give her anal pleasure via the use of my tongue as opposed to my potentially pain inducing penis.  She was producing a deluge of vaginal fluid that was pouring onto her anus, so I did not need to use any lube---indeed I would be tonguing her asshole with a scathing rapidity that would render use of lube necessary.  Her asshole was fresh and clean--- Dominican women pay meticulous attention to hygiene.  She took a complete shower, not the half-hearted once that sex workers often take, merely soaping their pussy in between clients.  I would not accept anything less.  I rammed my tongue into her wide open asshole with machine like rapidity, while she kneeled on the bed with her ass raised high in the air and arms grasping the pillow in front of her.  She moaned with uncontrollable ecstasy.  After I thought she had enough of the tongue on her ass I finally decided to give her release by turning her around and stimulating her vagina and clitoris with my tongue.  I wasn’t going to play around with her pussy anymore.  I was going to use the secret weapon--- putting her clitoris between my tongue and lip and rapidly twirling my tongue, inducing a vibrating sensation in her clitoris, similar to a vibrator.  I brought her over the edge and she came in my mouth with maniacal fury. 

Lorena

I walked her back to the New Garden Hotel and while on the way she said how she remembered that we had been together in the Casa Valeria hotel.  I take it she must have enjoyed the experience if she was reminiscing about it.  Once we got back to the hotel I immediately stripped down in front of her and she stripped down to her underwear.  We got on the bed together and I told her that I was going to go into the shower, but I first wanted to cuddle with her for a few minutes.  She grabbed a hold of me and held me tightly, heaping kisses on my face.  She told me that she liked me (me gusta) and that I was clean (muy limpia), while kissing and caressing my body.  This chica certainly was keen on GFE (girlfriend experience) with me tonight, so I headed into the shower so I could get the sexual foray started full tilt.  After we showered we got onto the bed naked.  I started to deep French kiss while I grabbed a hold of her enormous breasts.  Her breasts and hips were certainly anatomical parts that effectuated the sexual interest of many a monger.  She looked even better two years ago when I first met her, for she was leaner, so she looked even more appealing.  She was bigger now, but she still had curves and her breasts were utterly massive.  Most importantly, she had an exotic looking face as a result of her mixed race ancestry made more alluring by the fact that she had an elegant dress on tonight, all black, effectuating a more sophisticated look, especially due to the fact that her hair was shorter.  Put her in a first world country and give her an education and she could fit right in on Madison Avenue.  I didn’t spend a lot of time making out with her, for I wanted to start going down on her.  She remembered how well I licked her pussy and ass on the previous occasions we were together, so she was eager for me to start licking her pussy.  I lapped her clit with a soft stroke of my tongue and she said, “Ooh papi, while moaning.  This was the sign that this chica dug me.  I ravenously ate out her pussy and asshole, taking long strokes from her asshole to her clitoris. I sucked hard on her clitoris while she lay back on the bed.  She moaned loudly, really getting off on the experience.  After having lavished oral attention on her clitoris for a while I turned her around and stuck my tongue deep into her asshole.  She loved having her asshole eaten out and the louder she moaned the deeper and harder I went with my tongue while at the same time massaging her clitoris with my fingers.  Once I felt she could no longer bear the sexual tension I decided to quickly start licking her vagina and sucking her clitoris so that I could bring her release.  She could no longer take it anymore and she came into my mouth while her legs convulsed around my head.  Her pussy was really wet and I lapped up all of the juices that jettisoned from her pussy.  She immediately came over to me and deep French  kissed me.  I asked her how she felt and she replied, “Muy bueno,” with a smile. 

Passions

I stripped off my clothing in front of her and lied down on the bed.  She stripped off the scanty attire that she was wearing and came over to me.  I immediately turned her over and began to kiss her neck, lips face, and ears.  I did this gently and sensuously.  I find such softness and sensuality is key in drawing away from the commercial aspect of this business to a more a girlfriend experience.  I then rubbed massage oil all over her body and gave her acupressure massage, though not with that great of pressure as well as a sensual one.  I only did that for a few minutes while at the same time kissing different parts of her body.  Once I set the tone of the girlfriend experience I immediately initiated the tactile stimulation of her erogenous zones.  I kissed and sucked both her breasts, getting her to moan.  Her breasts were not by any means large, but they were comely fashioned.  After her breasts were sufficiently stimulated I made my way down to her pussy, which was utterly immaculate--- shaved and not with a hint of stubble or visible rash.  I savored it with gusto, twirling my tongue around her clitoris before lavishing oral attention on the outside and inside of her labia.  I altered such sensual stimulation of her clitoris and labia with sticking my tongue deep inside her vaginal tract.  Such stimulation would serve as the preliminary before I would insert my penis inside her vaginal tract.  After alternating between three different parts of her vagina I decided to focus exclusively on her clitoris, so as to give her an orgasm.  I stuck her clitoris between my lip and tongue and flickered my tongue rapidly, serving as a vibrator so to speak.  She obviously was enjoying the action because she was moaning loudly and twitching.  She would not last much longer with such intense stimulation.  She would go over the brink.  I gave her a respite from the intense clitoral stimulation by sticking my tongue deep into her asshole.  I had her on her knees with my tongue buried deep in her asshole, alternating the pushing of her hips forward and backward.  Such stimulation simulated anal penetration without the pain that can be associated with anal penetration with either a dildo or penis.  Regardless, she enjoyed the stimulation of her anus and I certainly don’t think she had much oral stimulation of her anus during her lifetime--- which was certainly a shame---- considering how attractive her ass was and definitely not by the patrons at Passions, an insight of which she would vouch for.  After her anus was sufficiently stimulated I went back to her clitoris and finished her.  She told me it was the first time she ever had an orgasm by a patron at Passions.  Maybe she was lying to make me feel good.  I would have no way of ever knowing. The three other women that I would engage in a sexual encounter with at Passions would say the same thing. 

Submissive men on this site need to stop sending messages of introduction to dommes telling them that they are attractive.  What did she do for you to deserve your compliment? A case in point, though this story would be placed under the guidelines of the traditional sociosexul arena it still bears relevance to the BDSM sociosexual arena. Yesterday, I went up to an attractive, well-dressed, comely fashioned black woman and said hello to her and told her my name. She returned my smile with a pleasant smile and in a lovely voice told me her name.  I rewarded her for her gracious return of my social overture by telling her she was attractive and that I wanted her phone number. She pleasantly told me no thank you. I bid her a good day.  The next story that I will recount is how one should react to impolite behavior.  I went up to an attractive Asian woman today and said hello and smiled. She did not return the hello or smile. I simply walked away from her. In the past, before the latest research that I have done, I would have erroneously said she was attractive and asked her for her phone number.  One should not hold the door open for a person that does not hold the door open for you, so why should I compliment someone that has done nothing to deserve it and in fact has been impolite to me. Now ask yourself if the bulk of the profiles of dommes deserve any type of reward or compliment from you?

Essentialism has been applied to sex throughout history , but the sordidness associated with sex really came to the fore with the concept that sex was impure and rituals of cleanliness required in sexual activity established in the Torah.  Christianity became the dominant religion in the Middle East, and eventually Europe, and Christian theologins immediately decreed the repulsiveness of sex and its detriment to spirituality.

Anyone who sends money to anyone on this site before meeting ought to have their head examined.

I have read a myria of profiles from dommes categorically stating right in the beginning of their profile that they are real.  Why is it necessary to do this? One does not need to be a former CIA agent to be able to ascertain whether or not a profile is real or not. Send out a message and ask the domme to meet you.  If she won't meet than she is either not interested or not real.  What does it matter which of the the two it may be.

I was reading a profile of a domme on this site and in it she mentioned to her prospective suitors not to expect for her to call them nor meet right away and that she would decide when to meet and call on her time. Such a profile sounds really encouraging for prospective male submissives. From a logical standpoint, why would anyone call someone for the expressed purpose of meeting when the individual, of whom one is interested in, has already categorically stated that they are nonchalant about calling and meeting, if not completely aversive to it? Why in God's name does the domme even bother to post a profile if they are going to be that aloof? I think that many people on this site, mostly dommes, but also men as well ought to read the book Bozo Sapiens. In a chapter in the book the author delves into how human behavior turns for the worse as a result of possessing power--- "absolute power corrupts absolutely." There are a myriad of examples of such corruption, but one only has to look at the recent behavior of Mel Gibson to see how despicable one's behavior can become when they obtain power and influence. I think that many of the dommes on this site that are extremely aloof and negative in their profiles ought to examine their behavior and the men that allow such behavior to occur ought to examine themselves as well.

I have noticed that many dommes on Collarme.com complain about the paucity of the verbiage in their e-mail responses. However, many of the dommes, as illustrated through personal experience, partake in a similar behavior when conveying e-mail messages. I have seen e-mails consisting of one word responses and fragments without predication. I usually attribute such a situation to one of disinterest and thus use it as a cue to cease further contact with the domme. Regardless of one's interest, both dommes and submissives, should keep in mind that one's writing and the content is indicative of one's personality and  character traits that they are conveying to the general public--- the members on this site. And it would behoove all of us to try to be cordial, direct, and truthful with all the individuals of whom we encounter here, so as to make the site work to benefit us all.

If one from outside the States were to read the profiles of dommes advertising on Collarme.com they could not fail to notice the abundance of pay-for-play opportunities existant in the States. They might deem such phenomenon as an indication that the U.S. is prime territory for the next sex tourist destiantion. If only the prices were not so high.

I can't help but be perplexed by the myriad of dommes on this site that advertise for long-term monogamous relationships as if we were all on Match.com or Eharmony.com. Most of the submissive men on this site are either married or have been in marriages and long-term relationships that they have gotten out for the very reason they could not have their fetishes satisfied. Face the fact that submissive men on this site are by-and-large interested in having their fetishes satisfied.  And the dommes on the site should be here for the same reason. If you want the classic monogamous relationship and the supposed concomitant emotional attachment Eharmony is your best bet. Maybe you could get one of the men on there to partake in BDSM roleplay. But it would be better to just have two types of relationships: one for psychosocial purposes and the other for the realization of fetishes. It is a lot more fun that way and it will save your sanity.

There is no greater let own than a profile with pictures on it of inanimate objects  or pictures of individuals other than the domme.   Submissives who respond to  profiles without pictures merely encourage dommes to continue the practice of putting up profiles without pictures.  A profile without a picture should be an immediate red flag and avoided.

There certrainly are a myriad of egotistical maniacs on this site.  They espouse a cult of personality complex that would put Idi Amin, Stalin, and Hitler to shame.

I am reading a surfeit of profiles on Collarme from females making tribute a requirement before meeting, some even had sixty day waiting periods. Why in God's name would anyone wait sixty days to meet someone?  I take it the Rip Van Winkel types are signing up for that. There has to be a surfeit of submissives on this sight who are complete morons if they would send money to someone they have never met before.  It might be a indirect source of foreign aid for third world countries that have men that have caught on to duping idiot men from the rich world who have not had much luck realizing their fetishes. 

I was in Dominican Republic last week and I was able to get fifteen women to engage in BDSM  sociosexual interaction with me.  Going on collarme.com and contending with the 500 to 1 ratio of submissive men to dominant women is absurd.  A three hour flight to Puerta Plata along with one's toys will have you in BDSM heaven.  None of the women I was with had ever had any experience with BDSM.  However, they were naturals and fell right into the BDSM sociosexual interaction when I provided them with the equipment. All of them used the strapon on me and many had orgasms from using it on me through both oral and anal penetration.  In addition, they were all keen on forced bi, not displaying the third degree that one will get from many dommes in the States: Are you gay? Is it really forced? Am I just fulfilling your fetish? I want an alpha male by day, but is not at all bisexual? We have all heard the bull shit.  The dominicanas in Sosua want to see a guy forced to suck cock and swallow cum.  However, there is a problem from finding available male recipients being that homosexuality is not open nor accepted in the Dominican Republic.