I'm a leader since childhood, and dominant in my career. Controlling, kinky, caring, and a little sadistic behind closed doors. I have experience in the lifestyle--not from stories, movies, and chit-chat. Early on, you will find out I'm genuine, honest, intelligent, and very up-front about everything. My life is under control.

I'm looking for a submissive for genuine companionship designed around our needs, desires, and perhaps fantasies that must be lived. No games, no strings attached, not constant cyber play. Someone to share common interests. For whatever our schedules allow. A serial relationship, but not a soul mate. Location is not a huge factor.

I have a W-I-D-E array of interests pertaining to BDSM, which can be discussed. Little is excluded as long as the power exchange exists. That's the attraction for me. Checklists, though I HAVE filled a few out on here, tend to be exclusionary or list one thing that turns someone off. It's all negotiable as long as I end up directing the show.

I'm very fond of bondage and blindfolds. Behavior control. I love lively play and tranquil cuddles. I love seeing, feeling, and hearing your emotions.

Photo upon request, since nobody on the "outside" needs to know. Most of us know the site has its jerks, fakes, dreamers, etc (both men and women). I'm not one of them. I want real time together. When and if the time comes, we will both first trust one another. I'll supply any information you would like.

Internet ads aren't a great way to learn about somebody. Rather, they're a way to contact prospective partners, that's all. Communication is the key. Trust is built.


Go ahead, send me a note!