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SadoPessimist

I was never very good at self appraisal, but here goes: I am a 27-year-old college graduate happily working what most would consider a blue collar, but well paying, job. I put in 50 to 60 hours a week at work and come home pretty exhausted most nights, so I live a content, if somewhat boring life. I guess I'm hoping to find someone to spice things up. However, I am a self-confessed serial monogamist, and having found myself newly single I am wary of making the same old mistakes. That being said, I am a romantic at heart, if also a cynic. I am also an experienced dominant, and kink has been a central part of my sexuality as long as I can remember. I was in and out of the "scene" in college, although it was a relatively small community, but now that I'm back in my home state I haven't really reached out as much as maybe I should. To be honest I wouldn't really know where to begin to find like minded people. I've never been much into social media. I haven't been on facebook in years and my (rhymes with wet knife) account is equally outdated. So this kind of thing doesn't come naturally to me. I'd say I value intelligence and insight above all else. I am an avid reader, photographer, and people watcher. I value quick witted banter over idle conversation. I can't stand it when people talk about the weather. A cup of coffee, a good book, and a little urban foot traffic to ponder over is all the entertainment I ever need. I can also have extremely impulsive and visceral moments. I have travelled extensively, throughout the country and the world, and I am always on the edge of another sudden journey. I am prone to quick decisions and second guessing. I like things to be consistent but not predictable. I love a good paradox. I guess that should suffice, for now. Feel free to message me if any of that seemed to make sense.
sexycurvysub69
 
 Age: 41
 Joliet, Illinois