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Protocols
What I like is the same protocols a person would have approaching an average everyday person be cordial, sincere and respectable just plain manners, I value that in people. I do not particularly enjoy people trying to get my attention using fantasy protocols, because I feel that it is rude to impose a fetish on someone. My point of view on the subject is everyone is equal monikers such a Master, Slave, Goddess, and so on are meaningless until after adults choose to consent to be in those roles with each other. I do not see those as blanket terms of a rank and really make a point to avoid those who behave in such a way. Being approached with Ds protocol tends to single to me expectations are unrealistic, not ready to start the journey.
- Be polite
- Get consent before establishing a power Dynamic.
- Behave a you would in any public forum offline.
I am a kinky, fetishist, I love perverse fucked up shit I get off on the macabre, love leather, heels, sadism, blood, pain, sweat, I can be cruel, dehumanizing and wicked I do things most people would only fantasize about and then some. However I am more than just the sum of my fetishism or my Domme persona this is only one aspect of myself there are so many more facets to me as well. I love cooking and baking, I am a major foodie, I believe strongly in community and value volunteerism, enjoy politics and discourse, and enjoy maintaining a healthy lifestyle threw active living and eating well. I feel disheartened to see so many jump into the sexuality, when there is a lot of value in the whole of a person any person.That kind of behaviour makes me feel a bit bitter truth be told. The Fetish and kink is my sexuality perhaps it may be weird I own it and love it. although it is still something to me a very intimate it is not something I enjoy sharing with others on a superficial level. Trust me BDSM and power dynamic are so much better if there is a true connection with the person thats why I am often more content to understand family dynamics, politics, hobbies, passions compatibility encompasses so much more than just one aspect.
I describe myself as an ethical sadist, what I mean in saying that is I hold myself to a strict standard of Consent, I also take great care to mitigate lasting harm, Build a framework of communication, I want my partners to benefit from the experience I share with them. I like providing people with cathartic experiences, watching them hit sub space, their pride in helping them endure more than they ever have. Having power in a power exchange can also be express benevolently as much as malevolently. Benevolence is how I see myself as the Dom in a relationship I want my guidance to build up not tear people down.
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