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Dom/Domme Couple, 64/58,  Portland, Oregon
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We will NOT be answering unless you say something to catch our interest, so don't just say "hi." Publicly, we're a perfectly normal looking suburban couple but in scene we've been described by some fairly experienced people as "mean" and "scary." We're more sadist/top than dom, so unless you're interested in becoming our live-in domestic servant, we'll be a better match for play dates if you see getting together to receive a sound thrashing and some extended orgasm denial more like a game of handball than an existential or spiritual experience. From him: When I was a little boy I wanted a Barbie doll.? Actually, I wanted my GI Joe to have a Barbie doll.? But in those days little boys weren't supposed to have girl dolls, so I didn't get a Barbie and GI Joe never got laid.? That wasn't so bad for Joe, he didn't have the equipment for it anyway, but I still want that Barbie doll. A doll I can dress up, have make up and hair done for any way I want.? A doll I can bend and twist and put into all kinds of strange and sometimes painful poses.? A doll I can play with, both dressed up and undressed.? Especially undressed.? The doll doesn't have to look like Barbie, she just has to be willing to be my doll.? My toy. From her: I love to see fear in my victim's eyes. I love to see painful blushes when my victim is made to perform a humiliating task or is displayed in a humiliating way. I love to hear the screams and moans of pain. I especially love tears mixed with drool and snot. That is when a victim is at his/her most beautiful. I don't have sex with my victims. To me, the torture IS the sex.??My greatest pleasure?is her pain, fear and humiliation. You won't be having sex with me (unless my definition of sex above appeals to you as much as it does to me), but you will be responsible for servicing my husband's needs in that area, and if you don't do a good job of it, then you and I will "have sex" my way. We have?no prejudices as to age, race, experience, interests, appearance, etc., but you?must be physically able to perform any activities mutually agreed upon.? If you are a lot younger than we are, we do often seem to end up as surrogate mother/father figures to younger people.? We're ok with being called "Mom and Dad," but?we will not do not do any age play in which we are abusing a "little girl." Don't expect long, erotic emails up front that tell you why you should be interested in us; if you're not already interested after reading this far, we probably won't be compatible. Be prepared to spend time actually getting to know each other before we decide whether to progress to more advanced discussions. Housegirl The following is the "job description" for a 24/7 live-in ONLY:? If you're interested in meeting for play dates only, disregard it. We have a position open for a housegirl.

The housegirl will be responsible for all the usual duties involving the care and maintenance of a home, such as cleaning, shopping and managing the pantry, managing the household papers, serving meals, laundry, laying out and hanging clothes, etc., and also for waiting on the daily personal needs of the Mistress, such as scheduling, answering calls, fetching coffee, etc.? The Mistress will be in charge of her duties, and the requirements will be exacting.

The Mistress is not bisexual and will require no sexual services from the housegirl, but the girl will be subject to the sexual desires of the Master. The Mistress will generally play no part in this and may choose to ignore it completely, or may from time to time choose to observe it for her own amusement. Other users, both male and female, may be brought in from time to time to make things more "interesting" (this last part is optional and open to negotiation).

The housegirl will be subject to discipline in the event of poor performance or insubordinate behavior. Discipline may be administered by either the Master or the Mistress, but in most cases the Mistress will choose to report any dissatisfaction she may have to the Master for correction.

If Cinderella's life before her fairy godmother showed up sounds like a good start to you, you could be the girl for us.






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Journal Entries:
4/6/2018 11:05:49 PM

If we add your profile to our favorites list, we're just saving it so we can look at it again later.  There is no other message intended.

 If you're interested, don't wait for us, say something.

4/1/2014 6:06:54 PM

If your profile contains a lot of flowery philosophical thoughts about submission, slavery and bdsm but doesn't actually come out and say what you are looking for, we have no way of guessing whether it might be us.

11/17/2013 1:41:39 PM

If you're a lot younger than we are and looking at us with thoughts of being a slave to an older couple, you should have a plan for when we're no longer around.  Because if you don't we will make plans for you and you may not like where you end up.

11/2/2013 2:02:12 PM

There are people posting profiles "exposing" other profiles saying, "don't fall for this scammer."  What they're really saying is, "I fell for this scammer."  Really, guys, you fell for a profile that used an obviously professional shot of a hot model and claimed to be from a deaf woman who couldn't get on the phone with you?  And how much money did you send to "her" before "she" disappeared on you?

9/18/2013 8:39:11 AM

Come on, scammers. nobody falls for that "I am hearing impaired" story anymore.? Come up with something original.? And while you're at it. steal photos from someplace else besides other CS members.? Your profiles aren't even entertaining to browse any more.

9/10/2013 8:46:44 AM

If we view your profile, it means you put something in it that we found interesting. 

If we view your profile and don't contact you, it means you put something in it that made us conclude you would not find us interesting.  If we're wrong about that, please let us know.

7/19/2013 12:01:27 PM

If you're putting up multiple accounts, at least vary the age, weight, height and text a little bit.  And don't use the same picture over and over again.  Have some originality.

7/18/2013 1:52:52 PM

If you're only interested in meeting up for play dates, you really need to live close to us.

2/10/2013 7:25:53 PM

Many scammers are putting Yahoo IDs in their profiles.  If yours has one, you probably won't be hearing from us, so if you're real you'll have to send the first message.

8/22/2012 9:35:31 PM

We seem to be getting a lot more messages from people interested in moving in than from people looking for scene partners, so we have added a "position description" for a 24/7 live-in.  It applies ONLY to a live-in.

7/14/2012 7:36:25 PM

We are approached by one person after another telling us they are useless.  We wish someone who tells us this would turn out to be wrong.

6/19/2012 6:34:22 PM

Before you message us, first go take a good, long look at yourself in a mirror and make sure you are actually who you think you are.  It may save us all a lot of time.

5/6/2012 9:35:33 PM

"What will you do to me, Sir/Master?"

"What will you do to me, Ma'am/Mistress?

"Are we there yet?"

"Are we there yet?"

"Are we there yet?"

Clue: if your profile says "slave," read ours, find out what our needs are and start by telling us what YOU are prepared to do for US.

If your profile says "submissive," read ours, find out what our interests are and start by telling us which ones you are prepared to participate in.

If your profile says something else, or that you are not looking for a male/female couple, start by clicking the button that says "Back to List."

5/6/2012 6:59:10 PM

Dictionary definitions, may be useful when selecting words for your profile:

 slave [sleyv]  1. a person who is the property of and wholly subject to another; a bond servant.

 servant [sur-vuhnt] noun 1. person employed by another, especially to perform domestic duties.

 serve [surv] verb (used without object) 1. to act as a servant.

 service [sur-vis] noun 1. an act of helpful activity; help; aid

5/6/2012 5:53:03 PM

Some of you would have a much easier time of this if you messaged people who already want what you want instead of messaging people who don't want what you want and trying to talk them into it.

5/6/2012 1:29:36 PM

If you are a masochist seeking to suffer the agonies of Hell and you happen to be employed by Anthem Blue Cross of California, disregard the previous journal entry and contact us immediately and we will gleefully fulfill your darkest desires.

5/4/2012 1:50:28 PM

The proposals that we receive for potential sadism scenarios demonstrate that some of you have very active imaginations.  

 Before approaching us to carry out your fantasies, please check your knowledge about what the human body can stand at:

5/3/2012 1:31:45 PM

Here's a hint for making connections with people for the socially challenged...

 Your dream dom, domme or whatever is not going to magically reach out to you through your screen and take you in hand.  You will need to get to know him/her/them, establish understanding and trust and a desire to be with and serve.  In order to accomplish that, you will have to actually TALK to someone for more than a couple of drive-by mail messages or chat requests.  We realize that actually talking to people is a new concept for a lot of you, but until someone figures out a way for us to jack our brains into the Internet and instantly join our souls together electrochemically, it's all we have to work with.

5/2/2012 8:54:51 AM

A lot of you are looking for someone you can fall in love with and serve.  We are looking for someone who will serve us, and love may come later.

If you really believe it is possible for you to fall in love with people who live hundreds or even thousands of miles away from you and who want to chain you to things and whip you before you've actually met them face-to-face and spent time together, we can see why you're having trouble finding someone.

4/28/2012 1:19:09 PM

We are a MARRIED COUPLE.  Two people, living together, sharing everything.  If you happen to live within commuting distance you can visit and serve either one of us, but if you expect to move in and be here all the time, you will have to serve us both as we require.  Don't ever ask what "he" or "she" will want to do to you, there is only "we" here.

4/28/2012 1:18:14 PM

Say something more about yourself than just "hi."

4/28/2012 1:17:21 PM

If you're viewing and messaging us from outside the US, be aware that under current economic and political conditions it is virtually impossible to sponsor someone for entry into the US as a home or domestic worker.  US immigration laws state that foreign workers may only be sponsored to fill positions that cannot be filled by Americans or current residents.  It would be absurd to try to tell the US government that we can't hire a maid domestically, and we obviously can't say we want to sponsor you to be our domestic sex slave.  If you want to come here temporarily for six months on a tourist visa we can pick up your travel expenses, but unless you have some means of qualifying for US residency on your own, we can't get you in.

3/6/2012 6:21:59 PM

Judging by the sub/slave profiles on CM, there appears to be a high number of masters. mistresses, doms and dommes succumbing to fatal illnesses and accidents.  

1/22/2012 4:44:49 PM

Quite a few of you seem to have fantasies about serving a couple, but when the time comes to take an actual step toward making it happen (and for some of you, it can be as small a step as meeting for a coffee at Starbucks), your fear outweighs your desire.  Unfortunately, short of throwing a bag over your head and just using you like a piece of meat for a weekend, we have no suggestions for overcoming your fear of flying.

(If the bag/meat idea appeals to you, we really would like to hear from you, btw)

1/21/2012 9:06:44 AM

We read ALL our messages, but CM doesn't require clicking on messages to read them if they're short enough.  So if you sent us something and you don't see a read date, be assured that we did read it.

We also reply to everyone, except for those who are so out of the range of what our profile is seeking that it's immediately obvious that they didn't bother to read it.  If you have that little respect for us before you send us a message, there's not much chance you'll improve any if we try to explain the errors of your ways to you.

12/15/2011 5:41:52 PM

"What are you looking for?"  We get that over and over again.  Is it really that hard to tell from the profile?  Ok, what we're looking for is someone who knows her capabilities and limitations and won't make commitments she can't keep. Yes, we said it:  the "C" word.  That old thing.

11/4/2011 9:24:29 AM

If you're just messaging us because you want a hot cyber chat session you can wank to, let us know up front.  We can give you a much better experience if we know there's no need to keep the conversation within the boundaries of reality.

10/30/2011 12:00:16 AM

We appear to be Collarme's Bermuda Triangle.  People start conversations with us and then totally disappear off the face of the Earth...

11/29/2009 3:17:55 PM

Read our profile and pay attention before attempting to message us. If you are not physically a female (you do not necessarily have to have been born a female, but you must be one now), your messages and chat requests will be rejected.

 (If you're on a life path that is eventually going to lead to actual physical femininity, disregard the above)

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