Personally, I find certain things to be private. I'm not a picture hawk. I'm not the type of person who gets impressed when I see a bunch of nude photos in your profile. I'm not the type of person who cares to see pics of you in action. If you're owned and that's a requirement of your Master to have you on display, that's one thing. But if you're not...then why do you post pictures like that, and then talk about how you want the Cinderella Fairytale, and then scream in your journal when your inbox gets filled with messages from assholes. Perhaps there's some logic there. 

In my view, if you conduct yourself with dignity and respect, you will attract those who will show you respect, treat you with courtesy and consideration, and conduct themselves with an attitude that will lighten the burden for those who are searching for something concrete, something...Real.